The truth of life has always been gained and regretted.
Heard such a sentence:
"Life is a process of constant choice.
Smart people know what choice is. "
Busy all my life, some people pay attention to glamorous appearance, while others pay attention to inner talent.
We have been trying to find out how to live this life all our lives.
Life is only 30,000 days, and the most important thing in life is nothing more than these three sentences.
Wei Wei, editor-in-chief of economic journals, said:
"It is the most shameful thing to insist on making mistakes for face."
There are always some people who are obviously drunk at the party, but still refuse to hand them the wine.
As everyone knows, the only one who suffers from this move is himself.
Finally, I lost face and health.
After the writer Mo Yan became famous, every time he returned to his hometown, there was always an endless banquet.
At the banquet, it is inevitable to be persuaded to drink.
Mo Yan's mother worried about his health and advised him not to get drunk.
But Mo Yan can't erase his face. He thinks he will die if he doesn't drink, so he should try to be brave even if he is drunk.
In the end, I got drunk every time and was helped home.
On one occasion, Mo Yan and his brothers drank more than forty glasses of white wine and a dozen beers.
The next day, Mo Yan, still sober, visited the winery and drank half a ladle of hot wine.
In the afternoon, Mo Yan couldn't hold back.
Several friends were anxious when they saw him. They rushed him to the hospital, where he received intravenous drip and vomited. After a long period of rescue, he was narrowly missed and saved his life.
This drunkenness greatly hurt Mo Yan's health.
After smelling the wine, I feel sick, and I drink carefully.
Yi Shu said:
"Face is the most difficult and useless thing for a person to let go."
I am used to drinking for face and friendship, but I don't know that true friendship never needs to be maintained by drinking.
Heard such a sentence:
"People are tired because they can't put down their shelves, tear off their faces and untie their complex."
In order to save face, it is not worth the loss to drink your body down.
Yu Hua wrote in "Living":
"People live for living itself, not for anything other than living."
Putting down unnecessary face and taking care of yourself is the first important thing in life.
The Book of Rites says:
"Those who love deeply will have grace, those who have grace will have joy, and those who have joy will have grace."
Face not only refers to a person's face, but also presents a person's inner world.
Some people have good eyes, but they are very boring;
Some people are plain but popular.
Everyone wants to have a beautiful face, but what is more important than appearance is your heart.
I read such a story on the Internet:
A young female model went to a plastic surgery hospital for plastic surgery.
Seeing her delicate facial features and good complexion, the doctor asked her why she had plastic surgery.
The model replied that her career had been blocked many times recently, and she thought it might be because she was not beautiful enough, so she came for plastic surgery.
In fact, the model is very upset recently because of sudden changes at home;
I am full of grievances because of the intrigue in the workplace.
Models are immersed in such negative energy all day, and their faces naturally become ferocious, and others dare not approach.
The impermanence sutra says:
"The heart has no phase, and the phase is born with the heart; If you have no intention, you will die. "
A person's appearance will change with the concept of good and evil.
No matter how delicate the face is, it will become ugly because of anger;
No matter how ordinary the five senses are, they will become pretty because of kindness.
Face is determined by the heart, and our inner sadness and resentment will eventually be reflected in the face.
If you are positive and optimistic, you will look like a bodhisattva;
Complaining is fierce.
Wang Guozhen said:
"If you are not happy enough, don't frown deeply. Life is too short, so why penance? "
If you think too much, your heart will be tired.
Instead of indulging in the pain that cannot be changed, it is better to let go of the resentment in your heart and pursue true happiness.
When you lose your troubles, there will be light clouds;
Only when the mind is happy will there be a radiant face.
Gorky said:
"If you take the road of integrity, you will have a clear conscience."
There are countless disturbances in the world, and only character is the foundation of the world.
When I was a child, I always felt sorry for Yang Kang when I watched the legend of the condor hero. I was born with a good hand, but I played badly.
On the contrary, Guo Jing, regarded as a silly boy, not only won back the beauty, but also became a hero.
Now I understand that Yang Kang's fate was foreshadowed as early as the beginning.
Yang Kang knew that his adoptive father was his father's enemy, but he took a thief as his father for the sake of wealth and even betrayed his country for the sake of glory. His character is extremely poor.
He deceives people around him hypocritically, and also designs and kills six great masters in Guo Jing.
Although Guo Jing advised him many times, hoping that he would get lost and return to the right path, he went his own way and did not think of repentance.
Finally, he died tragically in Tieqiang Temple, and he deserved it.
On the other hand, Guo Jing, though seemingly silly, is kind-hearted, respects teachers, and has feelings for home and country.
His integrity and simplicity won him the love of many martial arts predecessors and taught him martial arts, so he learned a martial arts and eventually became a hero to protect his country.
Writer Kim said:
"It is better to be worthy of the body than to be worthy of the body;
Innocent to one's own conscience is better than innocent to one's own body. "
Be a man, aboveboard;
Do what you deserve.
Even after suffering, I will still use my character to spell out a world for myself.
No one is luckier than anyone else, but there are many accumulated characters and many blessings.
If you choose to be a shrewd egoist, you will naturally get rejection and indifference from others.
You choose to be a simple altruist, and what you reap is naturally the favor and feedback of others.
Ability is important, but what is more important than ability is morality.
Only by having both ability and political integrity can we forge a good relationship and the road of life will be wider and wider.
Ostrovsky said:
The smartest way to push a cup on the wine table is not to be brave, but to admit cowardice.
After all, there is no liquor store worth fighting for.
Instead of pursuing the ultimate perfection of face, it is better to cultivate inner temperament.
Everything in the world is sailing against the current. If you settle your mind, life is complete.
Character is internal strength, ability is moves. Only with profound internal skills and the assistance of moves can life be icing on the cake.
However, it is also in vain to have insufficient personality and strong ability.
Wu Zhe said in running:
"As an experience, people will always have many experiences in their lifetime. All kinds of experiences are proof that you have lived. "
In retrospect, I have mixed feelings.
However, after coming to this world, instead of regretting and being ashamed of the past, it is better to live yourself at this moment.
The road ahead is long and the galaxy is brilliant. May you realize your dream and be gentle with the years.
Author | Kaleidoscope, because of hard work, fruit is fate, a long-term doctrine.
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