1. The advantage of staying at home for a long time is to take care of the children in all directions.
Stay-at-home mothers stay at home for a long time, so they can look after their children almost all the time. If children accidentally trap themselves in the closet or fall down while playing, mothers can find out in time.
Disadvantages: it makes people feel bound. Maybe mothers like to stay at home with their children, but it is very likely that sometimes mothers still want to have their own time. Therefore, for stay-at-home mothers, private space will be particularly important.
2. Being inseparable from children?
Advantages: Don't miss the moment when children grow up. Stay-at-home mothers and children are together almost 24 hours a day. Therefore, the mother will not miss any important moment in the child's growth, such as the first time the child walks independently, the first time he speaks, and even the first time he wrestles.
Disadvantages: there is no private space, and stay-at-home mothers are rarely alone. When the baby was young, the mother couldn't even go to the toilet alone. But after a long time, stay-at-home mothers may get used to it.
3. Don't go out to work?
Advantages: Without workplace pressure, stay-at-home mothers can devote themselves to their children's growth and education without worrying about the boss's evaluation, workplace pressure, working period and so on.
Disadvantages: Without social experience, stay-at-home mothers will miss the interaction with colleagues, lose the satisfaction of successfully completing a task, and lose the motivation to dress up and go out to work.
4. Take the main responsibility for raising children
Advantages: Raising children has a stronger sense of accomplishment, and stay-at-home mothers spend more time with their children. Therefore, mothers feel that they have enough time to train and educate their children instead of taking a part-time job in a hurry.
Disadvantages: easy to immerse yourself in the world of self. Because stay-at-home mothers have less contact with the outside world, they are more likely to immerse themselves in their own world, and at the same time let their children have a little distance from the outside world. Therefore, it is best for full-time mothers to actively communicate with other mothers and go out for dinner or afternoon tea together from time to time to enhance communication with the outside world.
5. the head of the family?
Advantages: control everything at home. Stay-at-home mothers are responsible for all affairs in the family, including paying daily bills, cooking, cleaning and taking care of children's daily life. Everything at home is under control.
Disadvantages: it is inevitable to form other pressures. Sometimes, stay-at-home mothers can't help thinking: Why do all the chores at home fall on their heads? Even if their spouse is the best partner in the world, mothers sometimes feel particularly stressed.
6. Return to the workplace?
Advantages: It is not difficult to find a job again. Stay-at-home mothers can learn many ways to get their future self back to the workplace through various channels. Today's company bosses are more open-minded than before, and are more willing to accept their former stay-at-home mothers back to work.
Disadvantages: lack of work experience compared with peers. When a stay-at-home mother is re-employed, sometimes she will meet some bosses who are not optimistic about her. These bosses will think that the resignation of full-time mothers has caused losses to the company. In addition, when mothers return to the workplace to compete for jobs, they may meet people younger and more experienced than themselves.
7. Economic advantage: saving family expenses.
Stay-at-home mothers can save a lot of money for family expenses, such as child care, laundry or clothes for the workplace, as well as eating out and beauty. A family could have been supported by the income of two people, but after becoming a full-time mother, the whole family only had a fixed salary.
8. Facing different pressures?
Advantages: Enjoy the task of taking care of children. If stay-at-home mothers enjoy all stages of their children's growth very much, they can still smile even when toddlers collapse. Then, at this time, the pressure on mothers may be much less than raising children while working.
Disadvantages: may be defeated by pressure, and children may have various problems (such as fighting, misbehavior, etc. ), and the family income is completely dependent on the other half. Various "invisible pressures" may bring a lot of trouble to stay-at-home mothers. Faced with these situations, mothers should learn how to turn pressure into motivation and live happily every day.