After watching several episodes of Empresses in the Palace, I haven't seen many couples really love each other. Every relationship between men and women seems to be for the benefit, and the purpose is not simple.

It seems that only Princess Ya likes to win over strangers in the first five episodes, and there is no interest relationship for the time being. But this does not mean that the princess's love is pure, that is, true love.

In order to be a stranger, she refused to marry another son of Qin. At that moment, she felt very loyal and deeply in love, and she could be desperate for love.

However, after reading it, I gradually found that she was so persistent only because she was always rejected by strangers.

The reason why people refuse is also very simple. He felt that he was just an unlovable son of Qin. Among more than a dozen sons, he is the least valued and liked one, so he is insignificant and will be placed as a proton in Zhao Dang.

On the surface, he felt that he was not worthy of Zhao's princess, perhaps because he didn't want to delay her, because he couldn't control his life and future, and he couldn't give anything to her.

Whether it is love, a beautiful life or a promising future, he is not sure now, so his reason for refusing seems very touching.

However, through his conversation with his generals, he suddenly found that it was not easy to make people. The way he treats the princess is actually a means.

In other words, his love for the princess is not so touched, because he knows her too well. The relationship between them is not as simple as it seems.

On the surface, Princess Zhao is infatuated and single-minded, bravely pursuing the person she likes, regardless of the position and power of the other party. She is the person who represents positive energy and a commendable example of love.

And makes, on the surface, his way is commendable, because he didn't use the princess to pursue himself, he took the opportunity to climb, he showed a welcome, conveniently climb, or flattered.

His attitude is supercilious, and he doesn't want to use the princess to achieve his goals. Maybe he is really abstinent, putting his life on Zhao, drifting with the flow, and living one day at a time.

But on the other hand, he refused so simply because he knew what kind of princess was and didn't like such a princess.

The princess is beautiful, noble and excellent, and is a woman that many men compete to marry. But from the back, the princess's love for strangers may not be the kind of involuntary love from the heart.

In fact, both of them have calculation or ulterior motives, not just love each other and like each other's natural performance.

The stranger's refusal seems to be intentional. Because he knows the princess, she is a person who wants whatever she wants. But when she likes it, she likes it very much If she doesn't like it, she may destroy it immediately.

Just because I know her temperament, I dare not accept her likes easily. Or, he knows that once he accepts the princess's love, he may be bored by her, even abandoned or tortured.

But he refused and resisted the temptation. The princess will not be reconciled, but will care more about him. Indeed, the pursuit of the princess is mostly because it is rejected and will not give up.

As a princess of Zhao, she is deeply loved by her father. She wants whatever she wants, and she can do whatever she wants easily.

But she wants to buy a brand, but she can't buy it right away. Naturally, she was very dissatisfied. So her love is not necessarily how much love she really has, but the kind of psychology that she has to get because she can't get it.

In fact, many relationships and feelings between men and women in the world are not as beautiful and simple as everyone imagined and saw. There will always be some personal desires or other bad ideas.

Sometimes, they think it is love, but they just refuse to admit what they really think. Those real ideas are mostly for practical purposes, or whether they are beneficial or not.

Of course, there are also many people who really like each other in love and just want to be together and bring happiness to each other. There are still many love fantasies, and once they are not as good as they want, they may expose their true colors.

For example, the starting point and mentality that the princess likes can easily turn into hatred and even revenge. If you can't get strangers all the time, you will continue to be unwilling, angry and ashamed.

Especially later, if a stranger likes another woman, it will arouse the princess's jealousy and dissatisfaction, which will in turn deal with him.

This kind of love is not a beautiful love, but a selfish possessiveness.

Be careful when you understand that some feelings and relationships are not as touching and real as you think, but only biased personal emotions.

Look at each other's real thoughts and purposes, and then decide whether to accept or fall in love. Otherwise, after being together, it will not only be sweet and happy for a long time, but also cause more trouble.