Beauty or confidant is actually an emotion between men and women. Of course, this emotion has a special background, that is, it only exists between men and women, not the same. When it comes to the relationship between men and women, there is always an ignorant and mysterious feeling in the impression of the world, as if the so-called relationship between men and women is nothing more than a skin-to-skin blind date once it is touched.
In the world, beauty is easy to find, but confidant is hard to find. If you have fame, money and power, then beauty is at your fingertips. After all, this is a materialistic society, and a hypocrisy has many suitors. In real life, the so-called beauty is just a physical transaction. But a bosom friend cannot be equated with a beautiful woman. Even if you are powerful, rich and powerful, you may not really have a confidant.
Beauty is not necessarily in the heart, it only cares about superficial phenomena and visual reality. But bosom friends are in their hearts, not in form, and need inner harmony with each other. On the surface of visual impression, we can modify, modify and cover it up. For example, if I am not very beautiful, then I can improve it with plastic surgery. But a person's soul and essence are not easy to change. Sometimes, under the beautiful appearance, there is not necessarily a beautiful soul.
Close friends can be established between the opposite sex or the same sex. It has nothing to do with gender, age, position and power. It's just a sublimation and concentration of emotion. But beauty can only exist between opposite sex. It contains too many selfish desires and purposes, and even some snobbery and conspiracy. It is a transaction, a direct ratio of giving and returning.
From the ancient beauty to the lover of today's society, the word beauty seems to have been injected with too many invisible alternative colors. However, bosom friends have never changed since ancient times, and have always maintained their true colors-care, induction and tacit understanding. If there is no skin blind date, it can't be called beauty. The so-called beauty is associated with the skin. But bosom friends are different. They can have no skin relatives, but still have deep feelings for each other.
A confidant can enjoy the same treatment as a beautiful woman, but a beautiful woman can never replace a confidant. Being a beautiful woman is very simple. A charming figure, a charming face and charm still exist, and the ever-changing Anaga can be worthy of the beauty of the master. However, intimate friends often escape from this standard, focusing on the exchange, integration and understanding of the soul, which is the tacit understanding and induction in the depths of the soul.
Beauty may not last forever, but it is always associated with young appearance. After all, the appearance is easy to get old, and he died in just a few years. The reason why a bosom friend can last forever is because its standards and conditions are far from youth and appearance, and only care about that heart. People get old easily, but the soul is eternal.
As the saying goes, beauty is unlucky. In fact, it is not fate that is thin, but the face is zero and no longer young. People often say that beauty is a disaster. In fact, this kind of disaster is not caused by beauty, but a sense of abandonment and pain that rises from the bottom of my heart when a woman only relies on her appearance and youth to occupy a short-term vanity, and once she loses it, she is no longer loved by others and melts her once innocent soul into too much dirt and hatred.
Beauty is snobbish, changing her position and psychology with the trend. When the scenery is infinite, she is a naive girl, obedient and amorous feelings. In fact, these are just a means of purpose and desire in her heart. In the face of disaster and pain, she may not really be with you, suffering with you, and always inadvertently "peacock flies southeast."
Confidants have no worldly prejudice and selfish desires, but their possession actually lies in a kind of soul vibration and a sincere trust in loving me, loving my dog. She can share joys and sorrows with you, and has a kind of spiritual connection. Sometimes people feel that a projection of their own reality is walking with them, and even your words and deeds are so understood and known. When you are in pain, she will silently give you comfort and support, give you a pair of warm hands, or give you the most sincere and selfless heart. Even at some point, she can dedicate her most precious life to the person in her heart.
The ancients said: there are few bosom friends, and no one listens to the broken string! This is the truth of bosom friends. This is really a degree of sincerity, care and cherish. The world often says: a friend is enough for a lifetime! This is the value of a bosom friend. This is not the beauty of appearance, but the tolerance, understanding, trust and mutual understanding between hearts!
Beauty is a close contact. She is sometimes afraid of distance. A short distance sometimes changes the definition of beauty. What a beautiful woman needs is to think of the monarch every day and call him out immediately when she sees him. A bosom friend doesn't care about the distance, but feels very close. Although I can't see your shadow, I really feel the beating heart of the other person in a slow thought of bowing my head.
Beauty is short-lived, and eventually with the passage of time, youth is no longer far away from desalination; A bosom friend is eternal and will be refined and condensed into essence in the passage of time.
Being a beauty is doomed to be helpless. In the end, it's just an illusory dream you bought with your youth. When I woke up, I found that I lost not only my youth, but also the precious things I should have. Be a bosom friend, perfect and regretless. It will make people experience the wonderful life more. What is the truest emotion? It will add more charm to your life.
Smart woman-Lin Lang, would you like to be a confidante or a beauty?