Therefore, as a public figure, speaking is something that needs to be treated with caution. Otherwise, it will be interpreted as sincere and frank, or it will be considered intentional, or it will be crowned as worrying emotional intelligence, which is really a big loss.
As Mabel Yuan said in a variety show, it caused extensive discussion among many netizens. On May 23rd, Mabel Yuan was a guest on the variety show "Detective Skillful Hands" and joined hands with other star guests to complete the task. In this process, a professional antique restorer introduces the restored antiques and explains the correct gestures to take them, so as not to cause secondary damage to the restored antiques. But the instructions of the antique restorer have no influence on Mabel Yuan. Instead, she picked up the antique and waved it in her hand.
The guest next to her reminded her to take good care of the cultural relics, but then she said in surprise, "Nothing, it can be repaired." It's really amazing. I think the antique restorer on the show wants to swear when he hears this sentence.
After the program was broadcast, the attitude of netizens was also very unified. They all felt that Mabel Yuan's emotional intelligence was low, and what he said didn't respect the fruits of the work of restoring cultural relics at all, which was simply rude. With the fermentation of events, Mabel Yuan realized the seriousness of the situation. On 28th, he made an apology statement in Weibo, to the effect that he felt regret and sorry for his inappropriate comments on the program, and he would be more restrained in his words and deeds in the future.
However, judging from netizens' comments, Mabel Yuan's belated apology statement didn't save much image. The inspirational personal design that she has worked so hard to build has just won the favor of fans. It is probably because of this inappropriate remark that her accumulated popularity has suddenly declined. I can imagine what kind of influence this sentence will have on her future acting career.
There are many situations that affect your career because you can't speak or express yourself well, especially in the entertainment circle. Rainie Yang, once known as the "sweetheart leader", also has a disgraceful history in this respect.
At that time, Rainie Yang was co-hosting "Let me guess, let me guess" with Wu Zongxian. In a question-and-answer session of a program, he asked China and War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression how many years they had been fighting. Rainie Yang couldn't answer, so he guessed: "Eleven years", and another male guest corrected it to 88 years. Then Rainie Yang added without thinking, "Only eight years ~". It was this sentence that pushed her to the forefront at that time.
Originally, I was in my youth, and my image was beautiful and lovely, which was quite pleasing. Besides, I was an assistant host in the popular "I guess" and partnered with Wu Zongxian, so my exposure was very high. But it is because of this sentence that it is easy to say, as if it is easy to resist Japan. Eight years is not enough. Does she know how many people have paid the price of their lives in eight years?
This is a very serious matter. Being teased so lightly by her, her attitude was simply hatred in the eyes of China people at that time.
Although she also apologized for her behavior afterwards, it was still hard for everyone to let go. Before that, all the activities and publicity she accepted were completely stopped because of this incident, and the activities in the mainland were quite tacitly excluded. Rainie Yang's career in the entertainment circle has suffered an unprecedented blow, and she has been in a state of stagnation for a long time.
Maybe Rainie Yang's debut was too smooth. Even when he was hosting the program, there was a sophisticated variety coffee like Wu Zongxian leading the way. Rainie Yang just needs to be cute and cute, he doesn't have much experience. On the contrary, this incident taught her a good lesson and made her realize that as a public figure, she should pay attention to her discretion.
So there is a saying that some people look beautiful when they don't talk, but they have no beauty when they open their mouths. If you really can't speak, you must prove yourself by strength. After all, everyone will have one or two fatal shortcomings. Be modest, think twice before you act, and don't let a word from your mouth push you to the center of public opinion.
When it comes to speaking with strength, Zhou Dongyu, a young actor, is a representative in this respect. She started from a very high starting point. Under the age of eighteen, she was selected by Zhang Yimou to participate in the movie "Hawthorn Tree Love". As the youngest girl, she has a bright future. Not disappointed, under the blessing of seeking the title of female, Zhou Dongyu's star road is also relatively smooth. Many good works and directors are looking for her to cooperate, and most of the actors who partner with her are powerful.
Most of the roles played by Zhou Dongyu on the big screen are very pleasing, and the image of the girl next door is also recognized by the public. It could have been shining all the way, but it was also because of improper speech that the reputation declined and the performing arts career was negatively affected. This happened when she participated in the variety show "Extreme Challenge".
Extreme Challenge, as a popular variety show at that time, was deeply loved by the audience, and the guests who could be on this show were also well-known popular artists. Zhou Dongyu was also very popular at that time. Presumably, the brokerage company can arrange for her to participate in a reality show, and also want to use her performance in the reality show to enhance the audience's goodwill. I didn't expect the effect to be good, but her performance was to recruit black for herself.
She speaks quite directly in the program, and she is outspoken and has no discretion in the face of several seniors older than herself. Facing the permanent guest Wang Xun, his tone revealed many times that he didn't like Wang Xun, saying that he had never seen the world. After the program was broadcast, netizens all sided with Wang Xun and felt that Zhou Dongyu was rude and disrespectful to his predecessors. Compared with the LAY in the program, their performances are quite different.
Zhou Dongyu is also an open-minded artist. Perhaps there are not many twists and turns in his career, so it is inevitable that he will speak without scruple. Fortunately, this incident did not rise to a higher level, so Zhou Dongyu still has room for manoeuvre after Weibo apologized. After that, Zhou Dongyu's good film and television works brought back some of his good feelings, so it didn't have a worse influence.
As an influential public figure, every move has attracted public attention, so we should pay more attention to our own remarks, otherwise once it has a bad influence, the consequences will be unimaginable.