1. Being friendly is really a disease, and the disease is trying to please everyone. People who are overly friendly are afraid of rejection, because in their view, rejecting others is also a matter of losing face. Seeing face bigger than the sky often stems from inner weakness. Being afraid of disappointing others in everything is actually a kind of inferiority complex. So you should know how to refuse when it's time to refuse. You didn't have to please anyone.

2. The wonder of life is that it is always unexpected. It's like water turns into ice, snow melts into water, love turns into hate, and hate turns into love, flying and impermanent. Just like all farewells are for reunion, and all reunions contain the sadness of parting. Real beauty can only be appreciated by ordinary people, but can't be possessed. Beauty is a totem, a hope, and it is fleeting. All beauty is somewhat melancholy after all.

4. Meeting is an accident. There is no need to wait or prepare. Those wonderful encounters once made us so excited. Stalemate is a torment, passion fades, freshness lasts for a long time, and we slowly return to the original strangeness. We are not good at saying goodbye, many beauties can only fade away, and what can stay is the background color that precipitates our life. Sometimes, it's easy to leave, but it's hard to forget. You can walk out of other people's vision, but you can't walk out of the inner desert.

5. Indifference is an understanding and a release; Doing things in a down-to-earth manner is a kind of experience and a kind of precipitation. Walking lightly with the attitude of a stream and being calm with the heart of a mountain, there are many things in this world that are not as good as you think, nor as bad as you think. Learn to look forward and give yourself a firm; Learn to look back and brush away impetuousness. Keep your head up in the storm; In the glory, lower your heart and be indifferent to the years.

6. there is always a glass of wine, and those who have not drunk get drunk first. Everyone will have a relationship, deep or shallow; Everyone has a dream, either illusory or true. Collect the fleeting bits and pieces, regardless of cold and warm, quietly collect; The silk thread of carefree years, no matter good or bad, silently cherish.

7. If there is an afterlife, be a bird, fly through eternity, and have no trouble getting lost. There is fiery hope in the east, and a warm nest bed in the south, driving the setting sun to the west and awakening the fragrance to the north. If there is an afterlife, I hope that every time we meet, we can turn it into eternity.