"Old left said he wanted to meet me without makeup. What should I do? Urgent, online, etc! " A hot news, n expressions of despair, blew up our beautiful girl warrior regiment.
The sender is CC, a contemporary and trendy Japanese school for studying abroad. During my four years in Japan, I have cultivated a strange witchcraft that can be called a makeover, won the first-hand makeup, and inherited Xiao Hongri's consistent makeup concept. I don't wear makeup or be soft, and I swear to defend it to the end.
Such a charming beauty, porcelain muscle, arch eyebrows, eyes, smart nose, bright lips, smiles like a cat, scratching her little paws in her heart, and I don't know how many spoony people fall under a red dress. Its target, Mr. Zuo, also cut through the thorns, broke through from hundreds of competitors and won the hearts of charming people. The small life of two people is to live happily and envy us.
"I can't, you have been together for half a year, and Lao Zuo hasn't seen you without makeup? ! If you want to see it, show it to him. We are not ashamed. " Xiao A always speaks quickly.
"Eldest brother, you don't understand. Although you can meet people, there is always a gap, at least the difference between a fairy and a beautiful woman." I was busy explaining.
"Yes, you don't know makeup for a long time, I can't accept my face without makeup. To tell the truth, I'm sure Lao Zuo saw me without makeup, probably because he wanted to break up? " Xiao A sighed, and I gasped. When I saw Su Yan, I had to break up. This wave of operation was ridiculous.
02
Little anxiety reminds me of a Japanese drama "I can't get married, but I won't get married" I watched not long ago. Although Tan Ya, the heroine who has been sitting in various classes since childhood, still sighs like a girlfriend when facing the man she loves: "I still dare not let him see my plain face, and I always have to sneak up and put on makeup first."
It can be seen that, in addition to my ugly habit, the fear of plain face seems to be a kind of * * * knowledge of modern women. Think about it carefully, this kind of understanding can not be separated from the contemporary "market-oriented value" and "mandatory makeup culture"
Paying attention to face value and pursuing beautiful appearance should have been the performance of improving women's aesthetic consciousness, but the problem is that in this era, due to many clever marketing, the word face value has been pushed to the peak at once, directly tied to the social resources that women can obtain, creating a social illusion that "anything can be done as long as the face value is high".
When I was an intern a long time ago, my boss told me directly that now they don't want to find beautiful interns because many beautiful young girls don't like to do things. It can be seen that excessive promotion of Yan value will prompt some girls with unstable thoughts to form wrong values. Well, I can also see the fact that I am ugly.
The sudden rise of Yan value effect makes women have no motivation to struggle, and can only start thinking about "how to make themselves beautiful" and "how to make themselves beautiful quickly". On the topic of "beauty" in Zhihu, a well-known question-and-answer platform in China, a large part of questions are about how to become beautiful quickly, such as "how to become beautiful in a summer vacation" and "how to become beautiful in a month".
For most women, one of the easiest ways to quickly improve their face value is through makeup. This brings the wind of makeup.
03
When I was in college, a friend was named "village flower" by a boy in the freshman year because of her overweight figure and high school bookishness. Village flowers (let's just say so) are also careless, believe in the supremacy of spiritual beauty, pay no attention to appearance, and don't decorate, which directly leads to no one's interest for 4 years and continues the loveless life for 23 years-loveless life. Later, I heard that after graduation, Huacun often didn't meet people who appreciated her spiritual beauty, so she made up her mind to change herself and rectified her body shape, hairstyle and makeup. As a result, it seems that the plastic surgery was successful and successfully promoted to the ranks of goddesses. The photos have been praised countless times.
I thought this girl's spring had finally come, but I didn't expect many boys who had seen her in the early stage to say: I still like girls who are plain and beautiful. Well, it's straight.
Because of the prevalence of makeup, plain face has become a luxury, or a heavy luxury. A group of straight men firmly believe that only plain face is really beautiful. I have a boyfriend who tells me every day how beautiful my sister with milk tea looks without makeup. I can only say meaningfully that no matter how beautiful she is, she won't show it to you.
Social culture has turned to touting plain beauty, and the media predicted that xxx plain looks like makeup every day. Well, I know their conscience is flatter than mine.
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In this way, in addition, many boys' eyes were cultivated in the era of pseudo-high-value, and young ladies began to fear their own plain face. Even girls who had little difference before and after makeup began to feel that makeup added a lot to themselves.
It is a tragedy that we can't correctly evaluate our own beauty.
More sadly, in order to pursue this kind of appearance beauty, many people have lost a kind of physical beauty.
I often think that the beauty of a woman lies in her figure, and "physical beauty" should be an addition to physical beauty. This kind of physical beauty contains women's identification with their own gender identity and their own feminine beauty.
When men want to see us without makeup, they will feel nervous and flustered, which first loses a generous attitude and a psychological independence and self-confidence. From this point of view, Yan's materialism is really kidnapping and manipulating women, which inadvertently distorts women's right to make up into women's obligation. The status of women has not risen, on the contrary, it has declined.
At this point, when the male ticket wants to see Su Yan in the future, bravely give him a big slap in the face, bold! Dare to question the beauty of this fairy, then hurry and have a look. If you feel ugly, go quickly!
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