Do you still believe that reading can change your temperament?

In the age of looking at faces, temperament is so illusory. What's the difference between a fat man and a fat man who often reads books?

Several hot comments in the reply area can be summarized as follows: Is there an X relationship between reading and temperament? !

One of the netizens wrote this passage:

"There is a writer in Taiwan Province Province named Lin Qingxuan, who studied in thousands of books and practiced in the mountains for many years. His writing style is beautiful and pleasant, and the titles of his works are small and fresh, such as Ten Books of Bodhi, Pure Lotus and Mahogany, which are deeply loved by young girls.

Lin Qingxuan once gave a speech in Chengdu, and the girls in the audience gave him a pink envelope. Lin Qingxuan conveniently put away the envelope, thinking it must be a love letter. When I returned to the hotel and opened the envelope, I saw that it said: Teacher Lin, I have read your article since I was a child and admire you very much. I didn't expect to see you today, and I found that you look like the evil spirit in Stephen Chow movies. It is better to miss you than to meet you! "

lin qingxuan

fiery dragon

The netizen "Ge is going to do the problem today" replied like this:

Reading can not only change your temperament, but also transform yourself.

When Planck first went to college, he had not been exposed to the mysterious sea of knowledge in physics. He looked as bright and dazzling as the young sun god:

Then the sun blew up!

The reply of the netizen "clockwork Chen" is also quite interesting:

"I have always believed that reading will change your temperament.

Reading books on physics and mathematics is easy to lose hair and sigh: what does this sentence mean? What does the previous sentence mean? This conclusion always feels far from deduction. Why is it obvious? "

Bald men with thick hair must have different temperament. "

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Many comments, while being funny, seem to highlight such a phenomenon:

Reading is not only bad for temperament, but even harmful.

Not necessarily.

What is temperament?

Temperament is a feeling between words and manners.

Many people confuse temperament with appearance, and think that changing temperament by reading is not as immediate as fitness, makeup or even cosmetic surgery. But the face is skin deep and the temperament is backbone. There must be such a woman around you. Her looks are not beautiful, but she has temperament. Temperament has a wide range, either natural and graceful, supercilious, or calm, or fresh Ming Che.

Temperament does not necessarily come from reading, but reading can really breed aura.

In my opinion, the real temperament is not the foreign minister with high-quality clothes and high-quality clothes, nor the bell-shaped posture, but the stability in know life and the vulnerability in times of danger.

The externalization of these emotional mentality needs the blessing of experience and years.

Reading is a shortcut to getting blessings. It allows you to spy on people's complexity without danger; You don't have to travel all over Qian Shan to see the world.

Reading Wang Zengqi's "Life is Fun", you will find that writing, drawing and cooking, which were originally very ordinary things, can also make people deeply enjoy it.

After reading Lin Yutang's Biography of Su Dongpo, you will feel that Su Zizhan is brilliant, humorous and cheerful, and he is content to demote the Three Gorges with him.

Reading Louis Hay's Rebuilding the Heart, you will understand that when we lose our loved ones, jobs and lovers, we need to respect love, not pain.

Life is confusing, and reading helps us to open the fog in front of us and find our own way.

The process of reading is a process of meeting yourself and a process of keen perception.

When I was in love, I understood Xu Zaisi's "body is like floating clouds, heart is like flying catkins, and spirit is weak";

It took me a long time to understand Mu Xin's "I haven't had the pleasure of running to meet someone with small steps for a long time."

When I pick up girls, I will learn from Qian Zhongshu. "If you put your mouth together, I will say it to your mouth, and it will always get into your heart, saving me a long way."

When I was lonely, I realized that Zhang Ailing's "men after middle age often feel lonely, because when he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who depend on him, but there is no one to rely on."

Then we find ourselves in spiritual harmony with someone in the book. He knows you too well and writes about you emotionally.

Why do many people look depressed and have no temperament?

First, reading is different from exam-oriented study and scientific research.

Second, the fields involved in reading are different in personal execution.

Just like the example given at the beginning of this article, it is very funny but representative.

The nourishment of reading takes time to precipitate.

Temperament is innate, and cultivation can also be improved. So how to prompt temperament through reading?

1. Read the classics. Classic books are enduring and can stand the test.

2. Multi-category. Broaden the reading boundary, travel notes, essays, psychology, economics, biographies ... can all participate;

3. The utility is small. Meditate and realize that this book is connected with your heart and understands you just right.

4. Be diligent in thinking. No matter how good a book is, it has its subjective color, which is subjective and inevitably biased.

5. Unity of knowing and doing, applying what you have learned.

As San Mao said, reading is to please yourself after all.

Finally, answer the question at the beginning of the article. What is the difference between a fat man and a fat man who often reads books?

My answer is: Although years have moistened my body, they have never moistened my soul.