First, find out the reasons for the breakup. Emotional failure, all for a reason.

whether it's the woman's problem or her own problem, there must be obstacles that can't continue the relationship. Before recovery, we must be clear about this reason and what this obstacle is. Then, after identifying the cause, judge whether there is any way to remedy this cause.

1. Admit your mistake to your ex-girlfriend

Admit that you did something wrong, even if you don't think you did. There must be her reasons for the ex-girlfriend to break up. To argue for yourself, you can only divide yourself and her into opposite ends. You might as well admit that you did something wrong first. You need to understand that you must have hurt her in some way. Please apologize for your mistake first.

Don't repeat your bad habits, words and deeds that hurt your ex-girlfriend! If necessary, you can find someone to supervise you and help you quit the above behavior.

2. Save your ex-girlfriend with a gesture of being at arm's length

If you are at arm's length, do you know the truth of the spring? Love is the same, even if you really care about her in your heart, don't show it all on your face. Brothers, in fact, feelings are two people's business, and the love won't have a good result, so two of a kind is the foundation of feelings. It is right to let her like you again!

I've been in this situation before. At first, I was similar to you. No matter what I did, I never saw me. Later, I said, I will call you once a week, whether we are lovers or friends.

in the past few weeks, I called her on time, but she didn't hang up. Generally, I don't talk about two people, just about my life. Later, I deliberately put off calling her for a few days, and she just hung up. I know, she came back. But I still endure.

I happened to have something to go out at that time, so I told her before I left that I would contact her in a while, hoping that she could take care of herself and said something emotional. Call her again when you get outside to see her attitude; Then deliberately talk about things that are not satisfactory to you. Usually she will say a few words to inspire you.

Then I started sending messages and saying something soft. Later, she only punished me for buying her a set of underwear.

in fact, you have to use your head for everything. It's nothing difficult. I don't know if it will help you. Don't put yourself down blindly. No matter what kind of woman you are, you should not treat her as a person. If you treat her as an object, then you can master her well.

3. You can apply appropriate strategies when saving your ex-girlfriend.

It is suggested to keep the key points steady, and it is best to use some strategies. It is strange that you can succeed in saving your ex-girlfriend. I can do this:

I've been bothering her last week, I've been giving her a cold shoulder this week, and I'll bother her next week ... and so on. First, annoy her, chase her, send text messages, QQ bombing, and pester her, which makes her feel that someone is chasing, someone loves and someone is annoying.

Of course, it is unlikely that she will make up with you at this time. It's not impossible to make up with you, but it's more likely that she shows disgust. Whether it's really annoying, or just annoying to show your lofty, you can perform a sad performance (this is easy to do) in a situation that she can know, and then walk away silently (if you can impress her, it may be OK, if you can't have it below).

a few quiet days will make her lose the feeling of being chased and pestered. At this point, be careful not to let other boys in. Find the right opportunity to show your love for her without regrets, and show that you are silently paying attention to her and loving her.

normally, if she doesn't like it very much, she will feel a little lost at this time because she lost her old habit of being chased. In addition, as a woman, her nature is eager to be cared for, so she will accept you again to some extent. Even if I am not with you, I won't hate you too much.

4. My three-day chase and two-day disappearance plan

Getting back the past feelings is like facing a beautiful porcelain, you can't use brute force, otherwise you will lose both sides.

after I implemented the plan of chasing for three days and disappearing for two days, my girlfriend really took the initiative to find me, and it took a lot of trouble, which is estimated to be even more difficult than when I first found her. In fact, I just turned off my phone, and then said on my blog that I would disappear, and wrote a memoir on it, and let her take care of herself.

So, today she didn't find me until the afternoon. In the meantime, I didn't answer her phone calls or return her text messages. As a result, she also used some tricks that had to make me appear, and we finally met.

I went straight to the point and said that I wanted to disappear into her world in the future. She saidno. Of course, I'll leave the details to myself. Everyone's handling methods are really different. Anyway, we made up.

just now, after I sent her home, I turned off my phone again, so she went online to find me and said that I wouldn't be allowed to turn off my phone again.

5. I often "unintentionally" appear in my ex-girlfriend's world.

Every time I go to a place, when I am happiest, I will take a photo and then take a picture of the scenery. Know more friends of the opposite sex, chat and flirt with more friends of the opposite sex. Take more photos with the opposite sex. Put all the photos on QQ space, Weibo, WeChat, and other online platforms, and let your ex-girlfriend see them "unintentionally".

Fill up your time and don't let yourself be too free. The filled projects are mainly based on the above things. Contact your old friends more, and then contact her friends more. You can play together and let them know your current life.

6. Pay attention to strategically and despise tactically

If you storm for a week or half a month and suddenly stop, don't let her know the whereabouts of the phone (this is Lao Mao's theory of protracted war). If the enemy doesn't move, I won't move. If the enemy does, I won't move.

People have to have an adaptation process to accept the occurrence of a thing, and don't be impatient when breaking up. However, when most people encounter this kind of thing, they are not calm, and they all do things that make each other more bored, so that what little pity and affection they have left collapses instantly.

the more you beg her, apologize to her, and promise her, the more she feels that her choice is right. The more humble you are, the more she will look down on you. You can be yourself again, let her see your change, and try not to talk about emotional things.

7. Positive energy

Think positively and pay more attention to your good friends, family, work, hobbies and health. Keep in touch with the outside world, and the most important thing is to date other girls. If your ex-girlfriend finds out that you have a good relationship with other girls, she will find that she actually misses being with you a little.

Send her a short message on important occasions such as her birthday and breakup anniversary. Briefly recall how you and she spent today together. For example: I think of last year today, you and I ... a little sad ... how to get back my stubborn ex-girlfriend? Sometimes you have to remind her of what you were together.

8. Don't try to make any confession, or hold hands and kiss.

I repeat, the facts have told you that what you are doing and what you did to her before is ineffective. If you don't change your practice, you will give up her and lose her from now on.

and if you follow the method I mentioned above to save your girlfriend, your chances of saving her will be at least 1 times higher. So, follow me in your heart and say: I have made up my mind to change myself! I have made up my mind to face my present problem bravely!

actually, what worries me most about you is that you are stubborn and can't help but talk to her and please her. If you still insist on your wrong method of recovery, then the pick fairy can't save you.

So, to answer your last question: Yes, you can still be saved. However, the only person who can save you is yourself. Only when you have the courage to find and correct the mistakes you are making (which most men often make) can you completely solve your problem.

9. The last thing is to wait for your ex-girlfriend to contact you.

After she contacts you, you can talk about recent events, what you are busy with, what you are studying, and what your plans are, as if you were a good friend. Finally, besides, it's been a long time. Let's go out and sit down together.

Because of your recent change, after asking her out, she will feel your change and the second attraction will start. You can change places three times during the date and take it home. After that, your relationship will start again. How to recover a stubborn ex-girlfriend? If you want to avoid this situation again, please learn long-term relationships first.

It's difficult, but any attempt to get close to an ex-girlfriend will lead to her being far away. The closer you get, the faster she runs.

When making a decision, people tend to "not choose", because she doesn't know what to do, so she will choose to refuse or do nothing more.

So, what you should do is to find a good opportunity and choose a good day. When the atmosphere is ambiguous, say to her in your ear, "I haven't eaten your cooking for a long time".

Note that the ingenious point here is that she didn't talk about reconciliation and didn't ask her if she wanted to get back together, so she had no room to refuse.

if she answers "you miss my craft so much", then you can just say "yes, you can't just think about my craft" to express your thoughts.

If she answers "Maybe next time", it means that the time has not come yet. Let's make more efforts to increase more memories and experiences. A little holiday touch is also essential. It's more like pursuit than redemption, but it has an advantage over pursuit, because you have an emotional foundation.

Of course, this is just a routine way to save your girlfriend. The emotional situation is very different. Everyone should adjust it according to their own situation. The key is to consider and analyze your thoughts and feelings in your actual situation and find a way to save yourself.