Everyone says that love starts with appearance and is based on talent. Most love at first sight is caused by lust. People are visual animals. So if a person is very nice to you, but not good-looking. If he or she looks good, would you still fall in love with him or her?

I personally think that falling in love is when both parties are suitable together, feel good, and the other person is kind-hearted, and does not care about appearance. If my significant other is ugly, but treats me well, treats my parents well, and loves me, and we fall in love, and we can understand and tolerate each other in all aspects of life, I think we can talk about marriage. First: It depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with colleagues and friends, this man is relatively reliable.

If this man has a bad relationship with his family, then this man is unreliable. Even if it is good to you, it is temporary or just pretending.

Second: It can be observed in the details of life. If a man cares about everything and is petty, it is not suitable to marry him.

Third: You can look at his work ability. If you are not making progress at work and keep making excuses for not getting promoted, this kind of man cannot get married. If you get married, you will suffer a lifetime of pain.

The greatest sorrow for a woman is to marry an incompetent man.

Fourth: See if he has the courage to take responsibility. If he excuses himself for any mistakes, blames others, and shirks responsibility, this kind of man cannot be married.

Fifth, how to use money

One saves and the other wastes. For example, when receiving the utility bill every month, the party who may have saved will complain:

Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do you keep the water running when brushing your teeth? One buys it when he likes it, while the other always buys bargains... The differences in money and methods of buying things Differences actually include differences in entire values.

Sixth, housework

In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial matters that need attention: such as a person who likes to throw things around, a clothes hanger and a clothes hanger. They are all hung at about the same distance apart; one likes to keep everything, while the other disposes of magazines as garbage after reading them; even as small as squeezing out toothpaste, small things add up to big things. Such details often become the trigger of a big quarrel. So.