"Corruption" is the habit of you people!

Your son is naughty. As a parent, you should discipline him. If you want to solve it by giving gifts, it's just killing your son!

I remember when I was in primary school, I began to "rise" to send calendars to teachers.

At that time, the teacher received a calendar and received a "soft hand"!

Now it seems that sending calendars is nothing more than trying to have a good relationship with teachers!

In fact, you have committed a crime, so deal with it as you should!

After all, it is just a "calendar"!

Later, the sixth grade of primary school will graduate, and the captain of our class is the "three bars". Her parents hope that the teacher will make the review of study books more "wonderful"! "big gift money"! A 24K gold necklace was given to our class teacher. That year was "expensive"! Natural comments are a piece of cake!

At that time, parents who picked up the car would come to see our class teacher off every day. My classmate's father drives a car for the leader in the government, or he is a "car". It is convenient to use this position. He also went to the head teacher's house to pick up the teacher and go to work together, and went home together after school.

Then the usual attitude towards our classmates must be different. People are certainly not the kind of "naughty" children!

Parents are willing to let their children be "spoiled" by teachers!

@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫 thinks: In fact, this kind of "pet" is not good. Is it a little flower and grass in the greenhouse?

In the future, when children grow up and enter the society, there will be many bad things, and they will feel that everyone should be "good" to me! The heart can't stand the waves!

Don't use "gifts" to solve the problem. Maybe children will become "bribers" in the future!

What is the purpose of your gift? Is the child bullying other children so that the teacher won't tell you, or let the teacher help beat other children together?

As parents, we should realize that teachers always think of their children, and don't think that teachers' good intentions are crooked. Don't bring some bad social atmosphere to school, which will also have a bad influence on children.

I think you should take your son with gifts, go to Children's Home where your son bullied you, and apologize one by one. Let the son look at the faces of those parents and listen to how those parents evaluate his behavior.

There is something wrong with your logical thinking. The essence is that your son's lack of family education has caused others to get hurt. You used the teacher's brain instead of solving your son's problems. Putting the cart before the horse cannot solve the fundamental problem. Is this a gift?

Your idea is strange. Children often bully their classmates at school. Shouldn't we try to help them get rid of this problem quickly? Why do you consider giving a gift to your teacher?

What is the purpose of giving gifts?

These three things, the teacher actually can't do.

Summarize my point of view.

Forget about giving gifts and take care of your son. Anyway, it's really late

Must be sent. But the "gift" you want to give is not for the teacher, but your own parenting method of "guiding morality and courtesy" and giving your children the practice of "knowing the book and reaching the ceremony".

You said it yourself: my son often bullies his classmates at school, but he used the word "complain" in his feedback to the teacher; In the supplementary question, you said that the child was "naughty" and used the word "three transgressions and five times" for the communication between the teacher and you. At the same time, you said that you "didn't know what to do". So, what do you think:

1. Your son often bullies people because he is naughty, which is true and normal.

The teacher has told you many times that your son's situation is not suitable and he is embarrassed to ask for bribes.

You don't want to teach children, so you want to give gifts.

I think parents should think at this time:

1. Is it right for children to bully others? Should we educate and guide them?

2. If the child does not have the above situation, will the teacher look for you?

If your child is often bullied, don't you ask the teacher to adjust?

The original intention of guiding morality and Li Qi is to induce by morality and correct by ethics, so as to make the people submit. This is extended to parenting methods.

Psychologically, bullying is generally called "aggressive behavior". If this behavior is not corrected and guided, it may have a bad influence on children in the future, and then it will be upgraded to "anti-social behavior". In that case, parents may regret it.

At the same time, I hope parents can understand that if you give a gift to the teacher, the teacher will accept it, and then the teacher will not give you feedback on your child's problems. So, is this helping children or hurting them?

Parents should let their children know that they don't want their children to be bullied, but they can't bully others.

At the same time, it should be clear that the school is a place to study. After studying, the relationship with classmates should be harmonious and friendly, mutual respect, mutual help and mutual progress.

To learn manners means to be reasonable and educated. This not only reflects the quality of children themselves, but also reflects the parenting style of parents.

Finally, I want to say, in fact, your son's question and the teacher's phone call don't need to be over-interpreted. After the child has problems, parents' education and guidance will do.

If you guide well, you will find that children change quickly, and you will also reduce a lot of trouble accordingly.

I am a counselor. Thank you for your comments. Welcome to pay attention.

Take care of your son lest you regret it in the future.

You can see what kind of son your son is when you see the questions raised by the subject. Like father, like son, that's right. Even the crux of the problem is not clear. No wonder that raising a son like that should be asking others how to teach children and whether to give gifts. Obviously, they want to spoil their son by giving gifts to their teachers.

The attitude of parents determines the future of children!

First of all, my son often bullies his classmates at school?

To put it mildly, it's naughty. To put it mildly, it's that you don't know how to get along with and respect your friends correctly.

And your attitude is not to teach children how to get along with friends around them.

You are not aware of this wrong tendency.

You may think that your children bully others, and your own children have never suffered, but if you let your children develop and meet a better child or a parent who protects their calves, it may be a big deal.

Secondly, how many times did the teacher call to complain?

The teacher asked you to solve the problem and remind you of your usual attitude towards children's education, but you thought it was a "complaint".

Explain that you don't realize that it is wrong for children to bully others at school, and even think that children give you a long face?

This idea is unacceptable.

Finally, do I need to give my teacher a gift?

Maybe you think that if you are sent to a teacher, the teacher will help you settle this matter, or let the children help you educate your children. From beginning to end, you didn't realize the problem of children bullying classmates.

Ridiculous!

Even if the teacher doesn't call you because of your gift, will the child know more about it, or even worse?

In this way, the child will not have "My father is Li Gang!" Thoughts?

Maybe when you are young, you can use your so-called gift-giving instead of education to help your child end his mistakes. When he grows up, he will go out to the society. There are some mistakes that you can't handle and can't afford.

Such parents should first educate their children, apologize to the bullied children, tell teachers to pay attention to their behavior, and then reflect!

My son often bullies his classmates at school. As a parent, he didn't think about how to educate his children for the first time, but wanted to give gifts [picking his nose]. What would you do as a parent?

Now that children are still young, parents have the responsibility to pay for oral education. If it is time to exercise parental violence, it is necessary to exercise parental violence and let him know that it is not advisable to bully classmates at school. Parents are prone to violence. You should fight or not, but the purpose of fighting is not to vent parents' dissatisfaction, but to let children know that violence can't solve any problems. When our parents beat their children, what was in their hearts? At home, we should try our best to educate our children. Try to cooperate with teachers at school, and both the school and the family should bear it.

Do nothing, just think about how to give gifts to solve the problem. Perhaps it was a temporary success that kept our children away from disputes. But when our children grow up, we know that no matter what we do, parents will solve their problems in the simplest way and see what our children will do. Will it be the second Sun Xiaoguo? By the way, is our family as capable as Sun? If we don't have our children, we'd better be human [tears].

This society is fighting for power and financial resources. Our family can't take anything away, so let the children be good people.

Personally, I think the idea of the topic is a typical headache. If I meet the same person as the subject in the reenactment, I won't be your friend, neighbor or even want to know you.

Because you may be a person who believes in the strong and loves to bully others, but bullies the good and fears the evil.

The subject's son bullied his classmates at school, and the teacher called several times to complain.

In general, parents should first verify whether it is true that their son bullied their classmates. If it is true, then you should educate your son. This kind of education will not happen overnight, nor can it be simple and rude. Let the son truly realize his mistakes and stop bullying his classmates.

It is true that you really need to give a gift, but this gift is not gold and silver jewelry, nor luxurious food, but a courtesy gift, and you don't need to give it to the teacher, but to your son.