Homosexuals have the right to live in their own way, and they can pursue their own lives as long as they don't violate the law and harm the interests of others. But at the same time, we should let our families gradually understand their sexual orientation, communicate with them more, and win their understanding first.
Supplement: This was a question a year ago. I was praised by netizens today, and I saw it again. A year ago, returning to this question was a textbook way, lacking sincerity. Today, I carefully read all the questions and answers from netizens and wanted to tell my own story. I believe that among all the netizens who answered this question, I am the oldest, and my feelings may be deeper. According to secular standards, I should say that my life is almost complete, and I am waiting for my grandson. But at this time, I didn't expect that God would arrange for me to meet someone and let me fall in love with him. I know very well that this is true love, not love, and it feels more than first love. There is no impulse to get along with him, it is completely spiritual happiness.
My first love was my high school classmate. Then I buried my feelings. According to the secular requirements, I "fall in love", get married and have children. My main life is work and family, and everything is step by step. Others may seem successful and think that their life is over. Unexpectedly, love sprouted again. I'm in pain now, too I want to control my emotions, but I can't, but I'm afraid to hurt him and dare not tell him. And I think it's unfair to him, because he is married and single.
However, I also gained some life insights from the pain. I hope that young people will stop following our old path, choose their own lives, and don't give in to secular pressure. People who love each other should be together. It is immoral not to let people who love each other be together. No one, including parents, has the right to do so. Whether heterosexual or homosexual, true love is noble. Love is inseparable from sex, but sex is only one part of love. Moreover, sex in love is different from sex in simple marriage. Mechanical sex life in marriage is just a process of continuing genes, while sex in love is completely different. Love is the most valuable thing. The so-called "health", longevity and wealth in the world are not the same as love. You can get true love once, and you can throw everything away, including life.
When I was a child, I saw the troubles of young Werther, and I was always disappointed because of Werther's suicide. But now I understand, Victor, when I get true love, my life can end. For a time, many people envied the longevity of the old people in Bama, and many people went to Bama to pursue longevity. However, although the old people in Bama live a long life, they live almost the same life day after day, year after year, and some even never come out for a lifetime. Although this kind of life is long, it circulates in a small circle. Although life may not get rid of reincarnation, we can try our best to support the circle of reincarnation and enrich our life. Victor's life is short, but he expanded the circle of reincarnation with his own strength. If I had a choice, I would rather choose the short life of young Victor than the long life of old Obama.
Young people have more opportunities to choose the path of life, but they also face more troubles. I hope everyone can choose a road without regrets and be with the people they love. Nowadays, the society has made great progress and the secular concept is changing. As an experienced person, encourage us to choose according to our feelings and let love be the master!