/kloc-at the end of 0/9, there was a bad boy in Missouri in the western United States. He secretly threw stones at the neighbor's window, and put the dead rabbit in a bucket and barbecued it in the school stove, which made it stink. At the age of 9, my father married his stepmother and told her to pay attention to the children. Stepmother approached the child curiously. When she got to know the child, she said, "You are wrong. He is not bad and clever, but his cleverness has not been brought into play. " The stepmother is very envious of the child. Under her guidance, the child's intelligence found a place to play, and later became a famous contemporary American entrepreneur and thinker. This man is Dale Carnegie.

Lin Qingxuan, a writer from Taiwan Province Province, went to a mutton restaurant for dinner. The boss said to him, "Do you still remember me?" Lin Qingxuan said, "I can't remember." The boss brought an old newspaper 20 years ago with an article by Lin Qingxuan on it. At that time, he was a reporter for a newspaper. This is a report about thieves. The thief was skilled, committed thousands of crimes, succeeded every time, and was finally planted in the hands of an anti-pickpocket. The article sighed: "A thief with such meticulous thoughts and clever techniques can do anything!" The boss told him, "I am a thief, and your words led me to the right path."

Even thieves have something to appreciate, and even thieves can walk on the right path under the guidance of appreciation. Who around us can't appreciate and be guided?

Learn to appreciate others! Appreciate your colleagues, and you and your colleagues will cooperate more closely; Appreciate your subordinates, they will work harder; Appreciate your lover, your love will be sweeter; Appreciate your child, maybe he will become the next Carnegie ... (Liao Wenjun New Travel)

Pick up the chicken feathers on the ground

St. Philip was a deeply loved Roman priest in16th century. The rich and the poor all follow him, and the nobles and civilians all like him because of his understanding.

Once, a young girl came to St. Philip to talk about her troubles. St. Philip understands the girl's shortcomings. In fact, she is not bad, but she often makes irresponsible remarks and likes to talk about boring gossip. The spread of these rumors will do a lot of harm to others.

St. Philip said, "You shouldn't talk about other people's shortcomings. I know you're upset, too Now I order you to make compensation for this. " You go to the market to buy a hen, and when you leave the city, you pull chicken feathers along the road and scatter them everywhere. You have to keep pulling until you finish. Let me know when you are finished. "

The girl thought it was a strange way of atonement, but in order to eliminate her troubles, she didn't object. She bought a chicken, went out of town and plucked its feathers as instructed. Then she went back to St. Philip and told him that she had done everything he said. St. Philip said, "You have finished the first part of atonement, and now you have to enter the second part." You must go back to your road and pick up all the chicken feathers. "

The girl said awkwardly, "How is that possible? By this time, the wind has blown them everywhere. Maybe I can get some back, but I can't get all the chicken feathers back. "

"Yes, my child. Aren't those stupid things you blurted out the same way? Don't you often spit out some stupid rumors from your mouth? Is it possible for you to follow them and take them back if you want? " The girl said, "No, Dad."

"Then, when you want to gossip about others, please shut your mouth and don't let these evil feathers fall on the side of the road." In life, how to speak, especially how to talk about others, needs our careful consideration. (The Companion Supplement is anonymous)

Honesty is priceless.

There is such a story in the workplace in Shenzhen. It is said that a job seeker went to a company to apply. Because of the good conditions in all aspects, he quickly stood out from many applicants. The final stage of the interview was presided over by the company president himself. As soon as the job seeker stepped into the president's office, the president stood up in surprise, held his hand tightly and said, "What a small world. I didn't expect to meet you here. Last time I played in East Lake, my daughter accidentally fell into the lake. Thanks to your desperate efforts, you jumped into the water and saved her. " I forgot to ask your name because I was busy. Come on, what's your name? "The job seeker was confused, but he soon thought that the president might mistake me for someone else. So he said calmly, "Mr. President, I have never saved anyone in East Lake. You must have misunderstood me. "But no matter how the job seeker explained it, the president insisted that he would not remember wrong. Job seekers are also stubborn, that is, they refuse to admit that they have saved the president's daughter. After a long time, the president smiled and patted the job seeker on the shoulder and said, "You passed the interview. You can come to work in the company tomorrow. Please report to the personnel department now! "

It turned out that this was a psychological test deliberately directed by the president: he verbally created a "rescue" event to test the honesty of job seekers. Several people who walked in front of job seekers tried to make mistakes and take advantage of opportunities, and all of them were eliminated by the president. However, the job seeker successfully demonstrated his honesty in the interview, so he easily brought himself into the ranks of successful people.

Many facts have proved that success is often inseparable from honesty. Honesty is the most basic personality element of a "good man" and the most basic moral requirement of being a man. Honesty is the cornerstone of success, and it is also a "signpost" for a person to succeed. ("Tonight Evening News" and "Tonight Weekly" by Li Zhihong)

4. Who is the most loyal person

Jadi Bodmer is a Jew. His successful history in business is unknown, because he left nothing behind. However, he made a decision at a critical moment, but the world will always remember him.

1942 In March, Hitler ordered a search for all Jews in Germany. At the age of 68, Jadi Bodmer called the whole family to discuss countermeasures, and finally came up with a helpless way to ask for help from non-Jews in Germany and strive for their protection.

After the method is decided, the next step is to choose the object of survival. The two sons thought they should turn to the banker Kim O 'Neill for help, because he always regarded the Bodmer family as his benefactor. On different occasions, he repeatedly said that if you need any help, just ask him.

The Bodmer family owns the logging right of Pansha forest, and they are many timber suppliers in Europe. Kim O 'Neill is a minority shareholder in a bank. He was born with the support of the Bodmer family. For 40 years, in order to support him to defeat his competitors, the Baldmer family's money has never been deposited in other banks. Even at the time of the incident, he still had 540,000 marks of the Baldmer family in his bank. Since Bodmer's family is in a disaster, how can he stand by and ask him for help?

The 68-year-old man doesn't think so. He thinks we should ask Ralph Bennett for help. He is a timber merchant, and the Baldmer family started their business with him. Later, with his support, Baldmer had today's family business. Although there is little contact now, I have never been grateful and missed psychologically.

Finally, the old man said, you'd better ask Mr. Ralph Bennett for help! Although we owe him a lot.

Early the next morning, the two sons set off. On the way, the second son said, we can't go to Mr. Bennet's house. Last time I saw him, he mentioned 700 tons of wood. Go if you want! I'm going to beg O 'Neill. Finally, the second son went to the bank and the eldest son went to the timber merchant.

1948 In July, a man named Eisen Bodmer returned to Germany from Japan to look for his family, but in the end he found nothing. Later, he found such a record from Nazi archives: banker Kim O 'Neill called and a young man suspected of being Jewish broke into his home. A year later, he found the names of his father, mother, wife, brother-in-law and six children in the death files of Auschwitz concentration camp. They were arrested on the fourth day after he broke up with his brother.

1950 65438+ 10, Eisen Bodmer settled in the United States; He died on February 4, 2003 at the age of 83, leaving behind his memoirs, two sons, three daughters and nine grandchildren. His memoir mainly tells how he smuggled into Japan with the help of timber merchant Bennett to save his life. On the cover of the book, it says: To my father, Mr. Jadi Bodmer! Many people think that the best way to win the loyalty of others is to give them kindness.

Actually, this is a misunderstanding of human nature. In reality, the people who are truly loyal to you are those who have given you kindness. ("Companion" supplemented by Liu Yanmin)

Welcome green

It's actually a loofah, wild.

The floor where I live faces south, on the tenth floor. In the past two years, three more buildings have been built on the front and east and west sides, surrounded by four floors, and the courtyard formed in the middle is getting smaller and smaller, like a square well.

It's gray and brown. Standing by the window, you can't see far; Most balconies are closed, and telephone lines, high-voltage lines and cable lines of cable TV form a network between buildings, which is a tangled visual pollution. A flat, like a beehive. After work, people seem to be left inside, and they are called out when they go to work. There is no broad-minded mind and natural wildness. In the limited space made of reinforced concrete, there is no trace of life except people. After a long time, people will feel boundless depression.

Putting my head out of the balcony, I doubt that I have become a frog in the well. -Hungry for green!

This loofah, rather than growing in the corner of the building, is our heartfelt "look green" it!

There is a lump of soil in the corner of the building, only the size of a fist. There is room in this gap to accommodate this furry life and this overwhelming green. At that time, we were really glad that the construction workers were negligent.

Living on the first floor is Uncle Wang, a retired worker who loves to walk birds. Uncle Wang is certainly not happy to find this loofah. He was afraid that the loofah would be hurt, so he broke a hole in the bottom of his old birdcage, covered it with loofah and took good care of it. At first, I saw Uncle Wang bending down from the third floor and spraying water with his mouth. I thought he was feeding the birds.

No, just a few days later, the loofah broke out of the cage and the cage could not be taken out. Uncle Wang does not regret it. He also called back three or two iron wires from the street, saying that he would build a frame for the loofah. On the day of scaffolding, the yard was very lively, and a large group of children chattered like birds; More than ten people helped. When talking about birdcages and loofahs, everyone is busy handing bamboo poles and stay wires. ...

A little green, a piece of green, the vines on the branches spread out, ran along the road given by uncle Wang, and finally climbed the wire between buildings! Flowers, all the way yellow in the past, full of fragrance. Leaves, all the way green in the past, green is pleasant. Luffa, like an exclamation point, nobody picked it. When the sun shines, dew flashes among the leaves, and when the wind blows, it is a crystal clear wind chime.

The balcony was not closed, and my daughter said to leave a way for the loofah. The day before yesterday, on the second floor. She also stretched out the pull rod of the clothes to let the loofah climb up. Sure enough, it only took three days, and the loofah climbed up my clothesline. If the wife is not annoyed, she will try to hang the clothes on the balcony. Lao Zhang on the fourth floor is a fishing fan. He tied the thin fishing line into a tight knot and hung it down to catch Green! Thanks to his imagination.

After work, I changed my slippers and hurried to the balcony to watch the loofah pull up and down. Our building is concave and the balcony is in the trough. Sometimes from the balcony and the first floor, there are five or six protruding heads! So everyone talked loudly. These neighbors, who don't have much contact with each other on weekdays, are talking about topics other than loofah in the involvement of this loofah. This natural scenery and humanistic scenery add fun to the small courtyard and make it full of vitality. -Welcome green.

6. Environment is created by the mind.

Whether a person's situation is bitter or happy is often subjective.

Some people are satisfied with a certain life, while others can't. Therefore, those who can be content with the status quo may wish to live like this, and those who can't have to find another way. You can't be sure where your success lies, nor can you be sure whether you will be happy at a certain point. Some people will never be satisfied, and their happiness can only be established in the process of constant pursuit and struggle, so their goals are constantly moving away. Such people may have less happiness, but they may have great achievements.

Bitterness and pleasure are both judged by ourselves, and they are not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who doesn't love jewelry, even in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, it won't hurt her self-esteem. The poor scholar with thousands of books doesn't want to exchange diamonds or stocks with millionaires. People who are satisfied with rural life do not envy any scholar's honorary title or senior officials.

Your hobby is your direction, your interest is your capital, and your temperament is your destiny. Everyone has an ideal heaven and a world of flowers and flowers that they are willing to enjoy.

7. Big and small

A friend talked about his relative's aunt, who never wears shoes that fit her, and often walks around in huge shoes. If her son and younger generation ask her, she will say, "All shoes are at the same price, why not buy a big one?"

Every time I tell this story, some people laugh their heads off.

In fact, we will see many such "aunts" in our lives. Writers who have no thoughts only write heavy and bitter works; Painters without content only draw super-huge paintings; Businessmen who often go out have big homes.

Many people are constantly pursuing greatness, which is actually driven by inner greed, just like buying oversized shoes and forgetting their own feet.

No matter what shoes you buy, it is most important to fit. No matter what you pursue, enough is enough.

select

A person's life is often in a choice, such as: which university to go to? What kind of occupation do you choose? What kind of woman do you marry? ..... and so on. A person's decision-making power can tell whether his personality is mature or not.

However, people who have no opinions are not selected. Because when making a decision, he always asks others, "Hey, what do you think?"

Anyone who can make a big difference is a person with strong choice. He knows that the success or failure of a thing depends on who can't do it for you, let alone decide it for you.

At the moment of choice, success or failure has already appeared.

8. People are like this all their lives

I often use the phrase "people will live all their lives" to warn myself and persuade my friends. These seven words are easy to say and sound simple, but they are profound to remember. It can make me brave when I am weak, humble when I am proud, positive when I am decadent, happy when I am in pain, and let go of everything, so I call it "a blow to the head" and "seven-character proverbs". -I often think that the hardships, troubles, grievances and grievances in this world, if any, can't be solved and digested. Will they disappear in just a few decades? If so, what can't be solved?

People have been thinking about this sentence all their lives. If I were a hero, I would make greater achievements. If I were a scholar, I would gain higher knowledge. If I love someone, I will tell her boldly. Because today is the past and will never come again; After this life, everything disappears. If you haven't read a book and said a word, you'll never get another chance. This is a precious life, and I must seize it!

People are like this for a lifetime, and you can actively grasp it; You can also face it calmly. Think about it, and you will be relieved! Think about it when the spirit is decadent, and you can be grateful! Because in any case, it is always lucky to have this life, and you can't come for nothing.

9.like a flower

Smile like a flower, true feelings like a flower, hope like a flower, and life like a flower.

Everyone has his favorite flowers, and everyone has many reasons to be kind to himself and condense his life into lasting fragrance in the long river of time. The moment it blooms, it will attract all eyes.

Flowers are so weak, no matter how beautiful or gorgeous, they still can't stand the cold rain and wind at night. Chunhong quickly thanked her, leaving only sadness.

Flowers are beautiful soldiers. Although I am getting younger and fatter in the wind and rain, I never bow my head after all.

Life is the same, like a delicate glass, which can't stand the impact of natural and man-made disasters and breaks into a bright light. Every piece is a transparent heart. Life is often like a epiphyllum. With years of tears and sweat, mixed with painstaking efforts, there will be a moment to laugh at the world.

In today's world, fewer and fewer people love flowers. When people are running for a living, they can't even grasp their own life. Who will listen to Hua?

However, restless city, please don't forget that this world is a mirage. Everything is like flowers, and flowers are like everything. Therefore, the Buddha touched the flowers and Ye Jiaxiao; This smile is the world.

life

Life may be the only factor in the universe that should be worshipped. The gestation, birth and presentation of the essence of life is an extremely exciting process. Life, like music and pictures, has a predetermined hue or blood color in secret. When it meets the impact of the spring tide, when it hears the urging of the horn, it will suddenly be full of vitality, revealing its gorgeous and enthusiastic nature. Of course, this essence is more likely to be mean, cowardly and boring; Its owner has no choice.

It should be admitted that life is hope. It should be said that meanness and vulgarity should not be prematurely complacent, and should not be mistaken for having successfully eliminated nobility and purity. Camouflage can't last long, because time is like a long river, and despicable people, profiteers and vulgar sticks can't always wear the laurels of educators, poets and soldiers. At the end of their unimpeded career, their descendants will feel humiliated for a long time.

1 1. I worship life.

I worship the secret of noble life. I worship the fireworks when life is born, grown, fought, disabled and sacrificed. I worship the freedom of a living soul floating in mountains, rivers, oceans and continents.

Yes, life is hope. It goes with the flow and is free. It always makes one kind of human blood unwilling to fail and pursues its own golden pasture without any regrets.

12. The flower of thought

Every pond smells of the ocean.

In every stone, there is a shadow of desert.

So the poet said: a clover, plus my imagination, is a vast grassland.

Walking in the field of autumn moon, I remembered a poet's inquiry to old Tolstoy: Does everything/maturity/hang its head?

Yes, every step we have taken will become the past, whether it is a happy meeting or a painful parting, but please believe that every song we have sung will not disappear in an instant, whether it is eager expectation or affectionate memories, as rosa luxemburg said: "Wherever I go, as long as I live, the sky, clouds and the beauty of life will be with me!"

A narrow and selfish mind will become its own hell, while a broad and cheerful mind will become a paradise for others. There is only one layer between hell and heaven.

And all the flames of jealousy always start with burning yourself.

An old writer told me:

"How long has your foot been crushed? But don't regret it, as long as you step on the truth, whoever steps on it will have depth. "

Don't you miss the intersection of the past when you finally win the flower of success? Don't you miss the old wood in the luxurious house you rebuilt successfully?

13. Ren Xin

It sometimes takes many years to trust someone. Therefore, some people have never really trusted anyone all their lives. It's meaningless if you only trust those who can please you. If you believe everyone you meet, you are a fool; If you trust someone without hesitation and in a hurry, you may be betrayed by the person you trust so quickly; If you trust a person only for some superficial need, then annoying suspicion and betrayal may follow immediately; But if you dare not trust someone who is worthy of your trust, you will never get the sweetness of love and the warmth of the world, and your life will be bleak.

Trust is a feeling of life, trust is also a noble emotion, and trust is the bond between people. You have an obligation to trust another person unless you can prove that that person is not worthy of your trust; You also have the right to be trusted by another person, unless you are proved to be untrustworthy.

14. Yes.

There are too many beautiful things in this world to count. We always want too much and make as many things as possible our own.

Life is short as a blink of an eye, and it flows away inadvertently between possession and loss.

If you lose the sun, you still have starlight, you lose money, you still have friendship, and when life leaves you, you still have the kiss of the earth.

When you have it, cherish it; Lost, as a test of life's true knowledge, as a struggle commitment of bumpy life.

If you are honest, you give up hypocrisy; With enrichment, you will abandon boredom; With pragmatism, you will abandon impetuousness. Whether it is intentional abandonment or accidental loss, as long as it is really owned, at some point, isn't generous abandonment also a realm?

What you lose inadvertently can be won back. If you are lovelorn, you can find it in spring, but if you lose your will, you should sharpen it in winter. But you can't pick it up without laziness.

Too much desire becomes a burden. What can enrich and satisfy oneself more than having an indifferent heart?

It doesn't matter if you choose, and then you are ready to walk a mountain road.

Hope to adopt ~