1, the more you watch the drama, the more you find that you really don't love Queen Cao. No matter how much sugar there is, you can't deny the fact. He may have a little love for Queen Cao in his heart, but it is by no means love.
Because true love is like this: people with hearts together, no matter how fierce the quarrel, will find their own steps and then get back together soon; And centrifugal people, no matter how embarrassed, will also take the opportunity to find an excuse to slip away. We can't meet for half a year or even a year after quarreling with Queen Cao. Can this be love? On the other hand, Zhao Zhen told Zhang Han that even if she was angry and didn't like her, she would still go to see her. Unfortunately, Zhang Huan didn't understand this. In the face of Zhao Zhen's love, she is only partial and arrogant, and never knows how to change and restrain herself.
If she could learn to play the empress dowager, there would be no empress Cao. Don't consume each other's love, you can be loved longer.
Just because someone is used to it, you can't think that he will always be used to you; Don't be reckless just because someone loves you. The mistakes that should be corrected should be corrected quietly, and the mistakes that should be admitted should be admitted with face-saving, so as to be worthy of the unreserved love of the other party!
2, there are shortcomings in my heart. Seeing "Qing Ping Le", I suddenly made a discovery, that is, both Zhao Zhen and Zhang Han actually have mild mental illness.
I am obsessed with my dead mother, and I don't trust anyone but Jia. To put it bluntly, both of them belong to this kind of people: they lack calcium when they are young and lack love when they grow up. Because of the growing environment and because she is a heartless person, Zhang Huan has been calculated by others, so her sense of security is relatively low. Even with Zhao Zhen's favor, I still think it's not enough. She doesn't trust anyone and won't listen to others. That's why she is incompatible with Huirou and wants to compete with the Queen.
In fact, whether it is feelings or life, the most important thing is not that someone loves you, but whether you deserve to be loved.
She is too insecure to enjoy the beauty of love and life. Even with Zhao Zhen's love, it can't fill her inner defects and dispel the loneliness and desolation in her bones. Insecure people are more dependent on others, so they are not independent enough. People who are not independent enough have insufficient confidence in life, so there will be too many futile resentment and selfish demands.
Just as the book says: People full of selfish desires always want to ask Bodhisattva to help them solve problems and increase their wealth, while naive children will sincerely beg: Bodhisattva, I wish you good health! Instead of expecting love, it is better to fill your inner defects.
Are you in love or living a crazy life? There are not a few people like Zhang Huan. They not only lack love, but also lack tendons. I don't know if they are in love or crazy!
Zhang Huan is lucky to meet a perfect lover like Zhao Zhen. Zhao Zhen's sentence "Everything else belongs to the emperor, only you are mine" is the most touching love story of the emperor. Unfortunately, Zhang Huan doesn't know how to cherish. She just blindly asked for Zhao Zhen's love, but she never thought of Zhao Zhen. In the play, Zhang Huan and Hui Rou had an argument, and Zhao Zhen reprimanded Hui Rou in front of everyone. Hui Rou was very sad, but when Zhao Zhen came to comfort her, she cleverly said: Zhang Niangzi's fire came out, but Dad's fire didn't.
Even such a small emblem can tell Zhao Zhen's mood, but Zhang Han didn't. Therefore, she made mischief again and again in front of Zhao Zhen, saying what she shouldn't say and doing what she shouldn't do. The real attitude towards love should be the pursuit of peace of mind and independence. Even if he is a heartbreaker, you won't panic, because you know, what he chose, what he refused, and sophistry ... are all scenes he imposed on himself and have nothing to do with you. Even if he is a fickle person, you won't be upset, because you know, you are bound to meet several hungry wolves with treasures.
In fact, I thought to myself that if the Queen's reason and Zhang Han's willfulness were added, it would be perfect enough. Love a person, speak out boldly; When he couldn't respond, he had a good time alone. It's a pity that the queen kept the rules all her life and never tasted the sweetness of love. However, Zhang Huan, Zhao's true love, didn't live herself and didn't enjoy the sweetness of love. A good hand didn't have the expected effect.