Lao Wang thinks it's because he is too greedy and wants everything. The specific situation can be seen through his two marriages.
1. Marriage with Master Miao
Nan Lanben was the daughter of an official family, and her father carried a rare treasure knife with him, which attracted the attention of thieves.
Taking the child doesn't have to kill you. Why did Nanlan's father die?
On the one hand, my father is too ostentatious, and men are a little vain and like to show off. "I am a treasure knife, and your knives are rubbish."
On the other hand, my father is too confident and thinks he is a court official. How dare you thieves?
In the end, my father was killed, so keep a low profile whenever and wherever, and don't get carried away.
At the moment when Miss Nanlan was in trouble, Miao Renfeng saved Miss Nanlan and finally committed herself.
Before Nanlan decided to get married, Miao Renfeng also refused, and made it clear that "I am a clown".
Nan Lan, "Nothing, as long as you do as I do".
Master Miao is also honest. "good!"
Nanlan is a person who demands a high quality of life and spends money like water. The money she spent a few months after her wedding was equivalent to the money she spent in Miaojiazhuang a few years ago. The housekeeper told Miao Renfeng, the owner of the villa, that Master Miao stood beside his wife and said, "She is your mistress, and you should respect her as you respect me." .
In order to maintain the high quality of life in Nanlan, Master Miao will not hesitate to sell his land and will never reprimand his wife. ......
Even if Master Miao is such a crazy pet wife, Mrs Miao is still not satisfied. She thinks that Miao Renfeng is too dull, lacking in interest and doesn't know how to have an affair, so she finally chooses to elope with charming Tian Guinong.
Master Miao told you a long time ago, right?
"I'm a clown", I don't know how to cheat, I can't play chess, I can't paint and write, and I can't guess a woman's mind. "I'm straight!" .
Hey hey, when Tian Guinong came, Miss Nanlan ran away. So she's been riding a donkey looking for a horse?
I feel that she is a little lacking in honesty and loyalty to marriage. If everyone is like her, how many broken families and how many poor children with single parents will be added.
You are not satisfied. Why did you decide to marry Master Miao? Didn't you kill a lot of people?
You just care about your own happiness and say to your heartbroken daughter, "Mom doesn't want it, but she can't." How dare you say it!
2. Marriage with Tian Guinong
Mentally, Tian Guinong, who is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, also knows a woman's mind very well and is a good spiritual companion. At first, Nanlan's classmates abandoned their husbands and daughters and eloped with them.
Materially, Tian Guinong is also very good at making money. On the one hand, he is the head of Tianlong Gate, on the other hand, he also runs errands for the court. So there are all kinds of gold, silver, jewelry, silks and satins, which are far from the small landlords who collect rent in Miao Renfeng.
In a word, Tian Guinong is a typical Gao Fushuai. She is talented, rich, and also knows how to coax women and be considerate. It's hard to find lanterns.
Of course, Tian Guinong first approached Nanlan for a purpose, seducing Nanlan in order to get the secret of the treasure, but in the end, Tian Guinong really fell in love with Nanlan.
Tian Guinong ran errands for the imperial court and got a lot of money for nothing. The emperor's old man was furious because of the treasure, and told Tian Guinong, "If you can't find the treasure in my lifetime, prepare to destroy the Jiuzu.". Who is not afraid of death?
When Tian Guinong came home, he asked Nan Lan if he had taken it out. In a hurry, he slapped Nan Lan. Our Nanlan lady couldn't stand this anger and chose to commit suicide.
In life, who won't get hurt? Who will not be wronged? You will die if you encounter any setbacks. Isn't this life too worthless?
Afterwards, Tian Guinong regretted it very much, even after many years, because he really loved our Miss Nanda.
Tian Guinong is charming, knows cold and hot, and is rich in gold. It can also deceive people, but it is not 100% centered on Miss Nanlan. She accidentally bumped into Miss Nanlan once. Miss Nanlan feels that the world is beyond love. "Tian Guinong, I'm not satisfied with you either."
In fact, in the current words, Nanlan suffers from a serious princess disease, and she is very ill, willful and melodramatic, and quite immature!
Looking back on Nan Lan's life, we can see that his tragedy is rooted in himself. From an early age, Nanlan was regarded as the apple of her father's eye, responsive and never wronged. His last words before he died were "only my father depends on me", and so was Master Miao, who was bored to death by himself.
Therefore, the tragedy of Nan Lan is that he is too greedy and wants everything. How can there be such a perfect person? Excuse me, can you? Do such people exist?
The correct attitude is to accept the imperfections in life and live happily. That's a correct attitude towards life, not nonsense. You must not fantasize that the whole world revolves around you. After all, the world is not your own, right?
—— Qi Yue Dream Community Lao Wang GengwenNo. 10 1