I have seen many women in their forties or fifties who still look young. The one who impressed me the most was the leader of a certain bureau. Once when I participated in a city survey, two female leaders came to the department that organized the survey. One was a dignified and elegant elder sister who looked about 45 years old, and the other was a petite and exquisite senior beauty who was about 30 years old. I was a little surprised. She was obviously a young and senior beauty in charge. Looking at the survey list, she was indeed in a higher position and enjoyed deputy bureau-level treatment. Along the way, my eldest sister and I went in and out together and got along very well. The eldest sister asked me to guess how old the beautiful director was. In order to make it easier for the eldest sister, I gave the top number of 45. The eldest sister smiled bitterly and said: She is 52 years old, one year older than me. Everyone compares us. I am like her aunt.
Ahhh, what a monster! He looks ten years younger than me, but is a whole round older than me. How did she do it?
I began to consciously compare and analyze elder sisters and beauties.
Face. The eldest sister has no makeup and has a natural skin color, while the beauty has light makeup and is fair and rosy.
Eyes. The eldest sister is nothing special. She is a beautiful woman with bright eyes. When we went shopping, her eyes really lit up when she saw something she liked.
Figure. Neither of them are fat. The eldest sister has a slight belly and a little stoop. The beautiful woman should be taller and slimmer, with a tall and straight figure and head held high, like a young seedling.
Hairstyle. The eldest sister has drooping shoulders and big waves, a mature woman's hairstyle, and a beautiful girl with short curly hair and a child's hair. She is pretty and young.
Clothing. The eldest sister wears a T-shirt, trousers and flat heels, and the beauty wears a dress with bare legs and stiletto heels.
Walking. The eldest sister had a fracture and her legs and feet were not in good condition, but the beauty walked lightly, as if she could jump at any time.
Spirit. This is the biggest difference between the two. The eldest sister is a bit depressed and lifeless, while the beauty is energetic, enthusiastic and has the vigor of a young person.
The reason why there is such a difference is that the eldest sister said that beautiful women are different from people, and ordinary people cannot live in her state. She never bothers with anything, never does housework, and never cares about her husband. She has a nanny at home, and her children are left to the elderly to be raised in other places, and she sees them several times a year. Of course she has a lot of free time to take care of her appearance. It is said that beauty, massage, yoga, exercise and entertainment can make her happy.
People always ask her about her skin care secrets at the dinner table, and she is very frank and says: Worrying makes you age. I never worry or get angry. I just care about myself and be happy.
Of course, she must have many secrets. I see that she eats very sparingly, and only uses two chopsticks for the most delicious dishes. I heard that she also eats sea cucumbers every day, the kind that are kept fresh and shipped by air. They also suspected that she was taking sheep placenta supplements.
First, you can’t be too fat.
If your figure is too bloated and looks like a greasy middle-aged aunt, don’t pursue that kind of skinny beauty. Maintain a normal weight, or be a little fatter, with the support of collagen. , the skin on the face will not be loose and will look younger.
I am also in my forties. In the last two pictures of myself, between fat and thin, it seems like a beauty camera has been added, the same clothes, the same hair, the same mobile phone, 10 The difference in kilograms is so big.
Second, good manners.
We must maintain a moderate amount of exercise, such as yoga and jogging, which can help us have a healthy and well-proportioned figure. We must not be slouched, hold our heads up, chest up and tighten our abdomen, so that we can be full of energy every day. , full of energy, energetic, and much younger again.
Third, the clothes should be decent and not immodest.
In order to get rid of the aunty look, many women in their forties will wear some very young clothes, but this is not really a way of reducing age. In fact, we can choose some simple clothes based on our age and temperament. Generous and versatile clothes would be nice.
Fourth, take good care of your skin.
If you don’t take good care of your skin, you will definitely become a yellow-faced woman as you get older. Apply more hydrating masks. If you are over 40 years old, use better eye creams and essences. Don’t forget to protect yourself from the sun. Ultraviolet rays are the most likely to cause aging and wrinkles. You should protect yourself from the sun in all seasons.
The most important thing is to have a good attitude and a heart that will always be eighteen years old!