In fact, for the elderly, it is lonely: things are carried with you every day, and things in the city are ok, such as going to the park, going to the vegetable market to buy food, and so on: there are many things, but compared with the elderly in rural areas, the elderly who can farm are ok, and how many kinds they plant are entertaining; Let's put it this way: although my grandparents are not young now, they are still farming. They are not responsible for food and shelter, and they don't have to worry about their children mentally. This kind of old man is really good, much better than other old people, and that's what people should do. It's better to rely on yourself than to lean on the ground, even if your children can't always rely on themselves. However, they still have to trust their families, because they are doing it for their own good anyway, which is right.
I remember one time: I heard from my mother that my grandmother listened to the door-to-door sales promotion and spent hundreds of dollars on a dress to treat diseases or something. Although the money is not much, it is also a lot for the elderly. This shows that the old people in the Ming Dynasty are gullible, which is true, but my grandparents are also willing to trust their children, because they are all very good, yes, their sons, grandchildren and granddaughters are all very good, such grandparents. I feel very happy. This time, I gave a positive example to explain why the old people don't trust their families. That's because their children are unfilial. If children are filial to themselves, the elderly will trust their families!
PS: be kind to the elderly. After all, the old people are their grandparents and their father's parents. Therefore, it is particularly important to be kind to them. Love them like our parents?