Happiness is that kittens have fish to eat; Children have fun; Both parents are in good health; Happiness means that every child in the world can have a happy childhood (because the influence of childhood on a person is permanent).
I have witnessed too many "miserable" women recently. They are either abandoned in their 40 s, even if they give birth to four children for the man; They either lose their value and can't do anything but make buns and noodles; They don't even know how to continue their lives until their children grow up; They are also women who put all their hopes on their children, but have no requirements for themselves.
Seeing this, some people may not like it, because most of our followers are women. But I have to tell you cruelly: if you give up self-growth, your children and your other half may leave you.
I know that you have done everything for your family and children, and you have fully exerted all your abilities without reservation. But please ask yourself: have you forgotten what it feels like to please yourself for a long time? Pleasing yourself and making yourself happy is out of your reach? Or, you have forgotten what makes you happy.
Do you remember the first time you talked to your husband? Remember when you are in love, texting is like a deer bumping into each other and waiting for their response? Remember the feeling of going to the movies occasionally? Remember when you were willing to pay for each other for your little family? Remember when you went on vacation occasionally to relax? Dear female compatriots, in fact, no matter how years change, you can still find all these feelings.
Many people say that 80% of the responsibility for a family's success and children's education lies with the hostess of this family. Maybe this is too strong, but think about it, is it true that men can dominate the world and women can dominate men?
There is no denying that in a relationship or marriage, women are always in a vulnerable group. We should take care of every member of the family. It sounds very simple. I believe every woman has a deep understanding of how much we have paid, and men will understand the triviality of these things unless we say it. At this time, if I tell you that women must continue to grow themselves, is it too harsh? But dear friends, life itself is not an easy thing! You want a good life, a good family, a good state, these are all things you have to pay!
The original intention of our youth Xiaoxi is to advocate women's happiness, so that every woman can have a harmonious family and a properly educated child! Maybe it's ridiculous to say that as a medical plastic surgery institution. However, a woman's good face and beautiful facial features are the most basic things for our happiness! What our youth is doing to the stream is the most basic.
Without our foundation, nothing can be said below! So you say, is it important that we do medical beauty with our heart? As we all know, no one likes to see him look down on his old partner.
There is beautiful love beyond looks and life and death in the world, but this kind of love may be less than 5% in the world. The remaining 95% people still have to look at your five senses! This is also the metaphor of "Heroes defeated Yu Meiren since ancient times".
We don't want a woman to win or cheat with her beauty, or she is beautiful but not kind at heart. We just hope that all women can trim their margins and pay a little attention under the "butcher knife" of the years.
We don't want you to be stars, or each of you must have facial plastic surgery. We just hope that you can be yourself and constantly improve your "memory". Never give up on yourself, as long as you start to grow, it is never too late. This moment, this minute, this second, yes, change can be now.
The future always needs our own interpretation. I am 28 years old, and I have been on the road, constantly planning, constantly breaking through, and constantly growing myself. Sometimes it will be very painful, but it is really nothing compared with the happiness we can get.
-Bian Xiao from "From Youth to Ms. Angela Yu Chien, President of Xiaoxi".
Reflections on 1 1.23