Because the cost of living in Dalian is too high, it is really impossible to get married without housing and earning less. A man working in Dalian is really two or three thousand a month, unless the state-owned enterprises are four or five thousand, the house price is surprisingly high. In Dalian, if he doesn't earn 10 thousand a month, he can't get married at all, even if the woman wants to get married, because the pressure after marriage is too great. I suggest you create material conditions first. You can't find a local girl because you don't want to.