The protagonist of this story gave birth to a child today, 18 years old. As a young mother, she became a "60-year-old woman" overnight after giving birth to a child. What happened that night? Why did she become like this? How is she now?
The hero of the story is Hu Juan, who grew up in Zhumadian, Henan. She was beautiful since she was a child, and people in the village praised her for her watery appearance. She is also a famous village flower nearby. I like her since I was a child in the village, and many boys chase her. Living in the countryside, Hu Juan got married very early. /kloc-At the age of 0/7, she and her husband Zhu Xiao entered the marriage hall. Zhu Xiao is very happy to have married such a beautiful daughter-in-law. After they got married, they had a good relationship, and Hu Juan got pregnant soon. 17 years ago, in 2003, they welcomed their first child in this marriage.
Hu Juan is young and healthy. After giving birth to the baby, they didn't care much, and soon returned to work normally in the factory. But soon, Hu Juan found that when he got up and looked in the mirror every day, the skin on his neck seemed to be getting looser and looser, and there were more and more wrinkles on his face. She is only 18 years old, and her face should not age so early. Because only the neck and face have undergone such changes, Hu Juan thought it was just a sequela of having a baby, which should be a normal phenomenon and didn't pay much attention to it. But only a month later, Hu Juan seems to be a different person. It turns out that a girl of 18 years old's smooth and delicate skin soon becomes loose and wrinkled, and even smooth and supple black hair is falling off quickly, like an "old lady in her sixties". There is a saying in "The Warring States Policy Zhao Ce": "Scholars are used for confidants, and women are pleasing to themselves." 18 is the age to love beauty. For Hu Juan, what happened at this time was totally unacceptable to her, and she almost collapsed.
Her husband quickly took her to the hospital for examination, but the results showed that Hu Juan was ill and she had "acquired skin relaxation". The disease may be congenital, but it may also be acquired. No matter how you get sick, there is no specific medicine for this disease at present. In other words, the disease is incurable, and the doctor's advice is that patients can only change the status quo through plastic surgery. But Hu Juan and her husband Zhu Xiao are both rural people and have no money for plastic surgery. In despair, Hu Juan gave up plastic surgery. She quit her job and began to take care of her children wholeheartedly and devote herself to family life. But as time went on, his son grew up day by day. He found that his mother seemed different, so he felt inferior and gradually alienated Hu Juan. He doesn't even want his mother to drive him to school.
In this difficult period, Hu Juan's mother died of illness, and life gave Hu Juan too many blows. Her mental state collapsed, and she even filed for divorce because she didn't want to drag down her husband and son. Looking at this woman who almost collapsed before her eyes, her husband Zhu Xiao hugged her tightly. He firmly said that he would love her forever and rejected Hu Juan's idea of divorce. Her husband Zhu Xiao refused to divorce, which gave Hu Juan hope for a new life. Zhu Xiao has always loved Hu Juan very much. Zhu Xiao blamed himself for Hu Juan's illness. He thinks that he didn't stop the tragedy in time because he didn't care enough about his wife.
At this time, an old man in the village told Hu Juan that she became like this because she was sick during childbirth. As long as she has another child and takes good care of her health, she will naturally get better. The old man's words gave Hu Juan hope, and she decided to try again with her husband. More than a year later, their second child came out. At this time, their children are all intact, and the family should be happy, but the miracle didn't happen, and Hu Juan's condition didn't improve at all. But the good news is that a plastic surgery hospital in Shanghai, after learning about Hu Juan's situation, decided to perform facial rhytidectomy for her free of charge. Encouraged and accompanied by her husband, Hu Juan bravely underwent the operation. After the operation, Hu Juan's face improved obviously. She laughed for a long time and firmly believed that life would get better and better.
Everyone knows the story of Huainanzi's manpower training every cloud has a silver lining. "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise." Although Hu Juan lost a lot because of her illness, she realized her husband's love for her and had two children and a happy family. With all this, she has been a winner in life.
References:
Warring States Policy Zhao Ce
Huainanzi human training