Children are raised by their parents. They are the apple of their parents' eye. They don't want their children to suffer a little from childhood, or they just want their daughters to live comfortably in the future, and they always want their daughters to marry a good family. I don't want her to suffer, which is understandable. There is also what we call right home. The woman's family has good economic conditions, while the man's family has poor economic conditions, so the girl's parents want her daughter to break up and find another one with good conditions. Worthy of your own daughter.
Like this, I have one around me, such as my English teacher. Their family has good economic conditions. Since childhood, the English teacher has been his treasure at home, and his parents love him very much, so he won't be punished at all. However, in high school, the teacher liked a boy, but that boy also liked our teacher very much. They fell in love until they graduated from college. At that time, there were not many mobile phones, so we contacted each other by writing letters, and we had a good relationship. So I'm going to get married right after college. However, the man's family condition is not so good as that of the woman, so the woman's parents don't agree, so they mercilessly leave a sentence: If you suffer in the future, don't go back to your mother's house and cry. Not only did the boy live up to everyone's expectations, but he worked harder and became better. Let everyone see that their daughter is right or wrong. Finally, they get married, their careers are thriving and their lives are getting better and better.
In fact, I think as long as two people love each other, they can only work together, and there is no need to pay attention to economic conditions. In fact, it is not necessary, because the future road is taken by husband and wife, not parents. Parents' suggestions are just "suggestions", and you don't have to do what your parents mean. I feel that the property of two people working together is better than reaching for clothes to make ends meet.
? ? Economy is one aspect, but it is not the most important aspect, so it is not necessary to find a person with very good economic conditions, such as being too rich, having a modest family and feeling inferior when getting married. Find a similar one, not too bad, not too good, just a little, I think that is the ideal marriage for parents. But as long as two people love each other, these are not problems. As long as two people work hard enough and can work together, such a couple will get better and better. In fact, looking for a boyfriend is to find someone who is kind to you and really lives, rather than just knowing that finding a rich one is not necessarily appropriate, and the right one is not necessarily rich.