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High energy warning! Please be careful to avoid the three minefields at work!
The following reminders and advice suggest that you should be highly vigilant, read carefully and think carefully, and be sure to collect and remember them in the long years to come.
1. If you can't be diligent all your life, please don't be diligent in fashion!
Someone asked me a question that made me laugh and cry the other day.
Xiao Bai, an official, has just joined the company for half a year. There is a senior clerk in the office who is nearly 60 years old. His rank is not high, but he is old. When he first joined the company, Xiao Bai volunteered to wash his teacups every day to show his respect for his uncle. He also brought a bag of coarse salt and washed the teacup shiny every day. Grandpa gradually became rude from the beginning, and then became a matter of course. Later, Xiao Bai gradually entered the role of work and became familiar with it. Focus on the nerves began to relax, busy with work, and naturally no longer care about the teacup that is gradually filled with tea dirt.
Grandpa began to be unhappy and used to being held a cup every day. How could he want to lead a revolutionary hard life alone? Every day when I go to work, my uncle will put the dirty teacup on the small white table for a while without talking. The meaning is clear. In my daily work, I began to talk with guns and guns: "My sons are more than ten years older than you. What do you know? "
Xiaobai said that she was very depressed and said that I helped you rinse the cup for so long, but my father didn't wait on me like this, so you didn't remember your feelings and even bit me in turn. But I told him that you were wrong from the beginning. Unless you can guarantee that you can work hard all your life, don't work hard for a while with a passion when others don't know you at the beginning of your work. Of course, your actions and enthusiasm can quickly cool down, but it is easy to raise others' expectations of you, but it is difficult to lower them!
In addition to treating people and things, treating work is the same. When you first joined the company, you worked overtime all night with excitement and dedication, and handed in the work that was originally completed in a week in three days. It took your colleague two weeks to find a job. A few months later, you returned to your normal work rhythm, and you were tired of working overtime. It took you a week to finish the work. Your colleague has made progress and finished it in one week. In the eyes of others, you have regressed and your attitude has begun to become incorrect, while your colleagues have seen it clearly and have been making progress.
The ancients have long said, Xing Mi, Dou Mi revenge. Ironic, isn't it? Human nature is selfish and greedy after all.
Never go beyond your direct leader to do things other than work.
When Ye Zijun first joined the company, something happened, which is still fresh in my memory many years later: on a summer weekend, I received a phone call from Director B next door, saying that colleagues from two provinces were going to visit at the same time, which was really too busy. Let me collect it for you. Before the eight regulations, as the famous summer capital of China, every summer, teams of colleagues from all provinces came in an endless stream. I didn't think too much. I helped with the spirit of hard work and hard work. After a busy weekend, I was warmly praised by Director B. On Monday, I dragged my tired heart back to work in the office and casually told Director A that I helped Director B collect it at the weekend. I thought Director A would praise me for working overtime on weekends. As a result, he lowered his face and asked me, "Director B asked you for help without my consent. Why don't you report to me? " Where are you from? "
At that time, I still had a fragile blx. I vaguely remembered hiding in the toilet and crying secretly, saying that I didn't understand why I had to pay for a bad face. But after so many years, when I look back on this matter, I will firmly say to myself at that time: you are stupid. What about director B? He also bullied you for being too young to understand.
Always remember: leaders are human beings, and they will always take the lead in considering problems from their own standpoint, and will never look at your selflessness and dedication from the perspective of God. If your sacrifice has nothing to do with his own performance, he won't care so much. In contrast, he will pay more attention to his authority. This is human nature. When you become a leader one day, so will you.
Therefore, if someone wants to borrow you, even if you want to leave again, time is tight and things are logical, you should ask his advice first. Whether in person, on the phone or on WeChat, you should establish contact with him personally, report in advance, and never act first! This is out of normal working procedures and a basic respect for your direct leadership.
3. Everything involving money should be cautious, vigilant and vigilant!
This system is like a dictionary. Some people read half of it before joining the company, and some people have never even opened the cover. Faced with similar right and wrong problems, different growth environments have created different starting points for each new employee. Children whose parents get along like a duck to water in the system have been in contact since childhood, and they are mature and sensitive in their bones. Being able to grow up in a pure and transparent environment has suffered a lot and paid a painful price, and may not be half as vigilant and alert as the former. For example, my parents, as a pair of honest urban ordinary people who listen to the Party's words faithfully, have told me the most since I was a child that "we must obey the arrangement of the leader (teacher) and listen to the leader (teacher)". In the eyes of people like my parents, the world is almost transparent, superiors are always fair and honest, and colleagues are always kind and loving. However, when a child like me receives such education all the way and enters the society, he will really taste the bitter fruit brought by the "silly and sweet" education.
I have heard such a tragic story: after the eight regulations, "small treasury", as one of the sensitive words, is one of the key points of strict supervision of each unit. In order to avoid the inspection, the leader of a unit persuaded a simple teenager admitted to the countryside to open an account in the bank with his ID card, and then moved the small vault to the private account of the teenager, and he was not allowed to transfer money. Every time he takes out benefits, he asks teenagers to go to the bank to take out cash and hand it in. I am young and wet behind the ears, but I don't know the sinister society and don't think too much. Leaders will do whatever they want. Later, the leader was dismissed after being reported, and the Commission for Discipline Inspection settled in. The account has been checked, and the owner of the account is gentle. Faced with conclusive evidence, he doesn't even have the capital to protect himself. Naturally, he also carried the pot and was punished.
I sincerely hope that you will never meet such an asshole leader and encounter such a dangerous thing. However, if one day you face misfortune, please be sure to stay awake, don't muddle along, don't be afraid of offending the leader, and be sure to resolutely oppose it! If the leader dares to force you, please ask boldly: "Why don't you open an account in your own name?" A word promises to make him speechless. Some shameless old guys are dozens of years older than you and eat more salt than you. How could he not understand what this means, put the risk on your head, put the benefit in his pocket and sell you himself? I hope you will be more simple, lovely, obedient and cooperative!
Life is ups and downs, unpredictable, sinister and tiring. As early as 1000 years ago, Su Zhe had explained many cruel truths to us with the word 14. When you are so confused that you can't see the long road ahead, when you are blinded by temptation for a moment, and when you don't know how to deal with people, please don't forget your initial heart: you were in high spirits, and you didn't want wealth, but you wanted world stability and a carefree life. Decades of long working life is a long and narrow bridge, and the river under the bridge is turbulent and undercurrent. Put away your youthful wings. Before taking every step, you should look carefully at the road ahead. If you can walk safely to the other end of the bridge, you are already a winner. The world is stable and life is carefree. This is the simplest wish and the most extravagant one.
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