The problem of this topic is also concerned by many ordinary girls like Xiaoqi. Xiaoqi believes that the so-called fashion is not blindly following the trend, but suitable for oneself.
My life was once a fashion disaster! Before becoming a fashion editor, I was always a simple and honest student. When I was in college, I didn't know what route I should take. Once I wore a pink shirt with jade jeans, which turned red and green for no reason. This bright color scheme, "I wore it for a year and thought it was funny to wear it like this."
I have no fashionable family environment, no mother who knows how to make up, and no father who knows how to enjoy the taste of the middle class. I was born without a keen eye for fashion. Later, I entered the fashion circle, became an editor of fashion magazines, and began to study and explore. I remember that I just started using the skin care trilogy at the age of 23, and I still don't know how to make up. When I was in graduation photo, putting on makeup was a disaster. I really avoid talking about such embarrassing things.
Later, when I arrived in new york, I deeply realized that it was only on paper that I formed my own style. What is fashion? "Fashion must be a feast for the eyes! Although I don't think I am very professional now, I have finally cultivated my own feeling and can write in a fashionable way.
In new york, I know that fashion depends on people. Fashion must be my favorite thing. I can find confidence in it, and others look comfortable and lovely. The happiest thing for girls is to choose a lot and try everything. If it's really not good, don't dress like that.
My previous style of wearing was limited to the safety circle, and I dared not break through and boldly played with styling. For example, I wanted to try wearing a fishnet stocking under jeans, but I thought about it for a long time and didn't try it until it was out of date. Or fashionable shoes, even if they look good, are not suitable for you at all, just looking at them, so you don't take the initiative to try fashionable things. Later, more people saw fashion in the streets of new york, and found that the most important thing is to dare to try and be a person who is not bored.
After more than ten years of wearing contact, I now have my own feelings and opinions on wearing, and I also know what style my body shape is suitable for cutting, such as small shoulders and suitable for cutting shoulders; Long style, shirt, round neck will do. Besides, because she is only 160 cm tall, not a tall girl, she will not try the popular method of lacking the lower body. If you want to "look good in fashion" and make people around you applaud, then you should "show your own advantages, highlight it and become your outstanding advantages". 」
Do not follow the trend when buying fashion items. "I hope I can wear them again next season or every other year." But in terms of choice, I will also keep my own preferences. I still like bright colors and bright items. If I don't know how to wear it, I will choose gold, silver, black, white, gray and red, and I will match other things from these colors. Most of them can't go wrong.
But I always think that you don't need to change your preferences for the sake of other people's opinions. For example, you are obviously dressed comfortably, but someone tells you that you dress like an aunt and it doesn't suit you. So what? Aunt's style can become a fashion, just as ugly shoes can become a trend today. There are also white plastic sandals that we think are out of date. How do you define what is fashion? It is the stupidest thing to change yourself for the sake of others' eyes. If that person is Chanel Lafayette, then I will take his professional advice.
After all, we are just ordinary people, and we don't have a model's figure, so we should be good. In our own comfortable way, people will feel really comfortable with you.
Girls sometimes find excuses and reasons to enjoy some luxuries, but you don't necessarily "pamper" yourself according to this standard. If you find that a person can achieve spiritual precipitation by practicing pens, puzzles, playing paper tape and cooking at home, then enjoy this favorite "luxury". I will be very happy to go home and take a bath with essential oil, and I don't need to buy a bag to satisfy myself. Fashion is the same, you don't need to force yourself, just find your own direction.
My happiness is to try on whatever lipstick I want when I pass Sephora.
How can I make myself fashionable? I wanted to learn from this question, but I didn't expect to get the answer I wanted. Let me talk about my own views.
I have met many children from rural areas. After being admitted to university, they try to dress themselves up beautifully and want to be more fashionable and beautiful. Most of them did realize their dreams. Going to college is like going to a plastic surgery hospital. Four years later, they have completely changed, compared with themselves in high school. But I, as the college student in the question said, am still very "rustic" after finishing college. This "soil" is really difficult for me to change. I remember that since junior high school, the school requires to wear school uniforms every day. I wore a school uniform for four years in junior high school, during which I hardly bought any clothes. Later, when I went to high school, I still had to wear school uniforms according to school regulations, and time was even more tense. Until now, I still remember that once before I got up early for school, I looked in the mirror several times. "My stepmother" yelled at me, "Which photo to take is more important, study or beauty!" Pick up your schoolbag and run to school. After graduating from high school, I came to the university. You can imagine how rustic I was when I went to Harbin to study, compared with those fashionable classmates.
Girls in Northeast China are particularly fashionable and well dressed. They also want to learn from their classmates and change their "rusticity", but they failed. They are still simple and generous in dressing style, still stubborn in winning scholarships, and they have not been able to get rid of the "rustic" temperament until graduation. However, in retrospect, compared with those fashions that "stick" money on their bodies, they are clean, simple and generous, and they are well matched.
In fact, dressing up, as long as you look pleasing to the eye, wear comfortable, clean and refreshing, can be, why care about other people's eyes.
In response to this question raised by my pen pal, I consulted various materials and discussed with my classmates and friends, and reached the following conclusions, hoping to help you:
The cultivation of fashion sense seems vague and abstract, but if we put it in the workplace environment, we will find that as contemporary workplace people, we can find fashion quickly. Let's talk about the fashion sense of people in the workplace.
First of all, start with a simple basic model, and don't equate fashion with fashion. Sometimes, the most basic clothes and colors can give people a simple and capable texture without losing fashion, which is an easy-to-use and error-free dress concept.
Secondly, collect information through various channels, establish your own style, and use convenient network resources to find your favorite dress inspiration. Maturity or fashion, elegance or personality, start to learn and summarize the clothes that attract you, and you will have a practical foundation.
In addition, try to do some experiments of your own. The street is full of windbreakers and boots. You may be able to become a smart tool style, which is cool and very personal. Or change the color of the material. Fashion is closely related to innovation and imagination. Have a bold try.
Finally, just like a career, self-confidence can show your best, and so can fashion clothes. If you find your own style and wear it confidently, you will become a fashionable urban woman.
Fashion, a magical species, sometimes really needs its own understanding. Give an example!
I am a native of the countryside, but I have a sister who doesn't know a word. My father told her to study hard before she graduated from primary school, but my sister went to bed as soon as she got to school.