In a few months, the husband bought more than a dozen insurances for his wife one after another, and the insurance coverage could reach 20 million to 30 million. He set himself as the beneficiary after his wife's death, then took his wife out for a trip, took him to a villa hotel in Phuket, Thailand, and brutally killed him, and then faked the scene to lie to his parents-in-law that his wife drowned.
No matter how their marriage is, as the saying goes, a man who can kill his wife himself is only greedy for 30 million. How cold-blooded is such a man? From the news, we know that the families of both sides are well-off, and it may not be justified to kill their wives simply for the sake of defrauding insurance. From this, we also learned that the criminal suspect had 158 G pornographic video on his computer, and found that he bought online coloring service, and there were some screenshots of naked chat in his computer.
Moreover, his credit card consumption is huge, from rewarding female anchors, staying in luxury hotels to buying luxury goods, and some of the huge consumption is unknown. From this, we have to guess that this is an irresponsible playboy with a typical baby mentality.
What is China Giant Baby? Its paper meaning is obvious: an adult man without independent ability. Giant babies have a lot of terrible psychology, two of which are "all-round narcissism" and think they can do anything. This is a very fatal pathological state. Cause a person to regard the whole world as his own, can't treat others equally, and even treat others as creatures. This kind of psychology is actually a kind of psychology that exists in the early stage of infants, which is called "egocentrism" in pedagogy.
The second is "paranoid division", they are satisfied with their own imaginary world and divorced from reality. On the one hand, people with giant baby psychology are strong inside, on the other hand, they are very fragile. The inner strength is to protect your vulnerability, so you can't accept doubts, and once you are questioned, you will strongly resist; Can't accept unexpected treatment, once you encounter this situation, you will fall into depression; Can't accept setbacks, and once you encounter setbacks, your heart will be broken. Only adults with these two characteristics can be called giant baby psychology.
As can be seen from the news, Zhang (the suspect) does not have a good economic income on the one hand, and enjoys excellent living conditions on the other, which makes his psychology more divided. Everyone wants to be respected and become an excellent person, but Zhang has not achieved any outstanding career or personal achievements.
When Zhang admitted the crime, he said he didn't want to live with his wife. Since you don't want to live, you can get a divorce. Why did you kill my wife? Because subconsciously, even if you divorce, you have to squeeze out the final value from your wife, that is, you can defraud 30 million insurance money through this matter. Undoubtedly, this kind of psychology is not only giant baby psychology, but also distorted.
Extremely selfish, playboy, irresponsible The reason why this kind of man grew up here is also the result of family education mistakes, parents' doting, and the distorted values instilled in him, which led to the corruption of his three views.
In real life, I have advised many single women to stay away from giant baby boys. They didn't show any shortcomings themselves, and they didn't seem to be malicious. In fact, they can use selfishness to deprive others of happiness, even life.
Objectively speaking, there is a * * * similarity in the cultivation of giant babies-the process of their parents raising them is like training, doting and punishing a pet, not an independent person. So that when they grow up, they continue to treat and ask strangers with a distorted pet psychology and behavior habits, instead of normal, rational and equal communication between people.
Once a certain age is passed, this pet psychological model will last for life and will be passed on to the next generation. Therefore, in real life, as women, we must learn to recognize giant babies when looking for love objects and marriage objects. As the saying goes, "a long way goes by", don't rush to determine the relationship with the other party, but find out the good and bad of the other party from the details through words and deeds and long-term contact.
Of course, there is still a very sad phenomenon in society: some parents need to ask their children for help to get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, which leads to more and more adults with "giant baby mentality" in society. Just like my friend Luo Feng, she attended a famous university on campus, went to the American Ivy League for postgraduate study, and returned home after graduation, bent on starting a business, but failed. So after I got married, I went to a big company to be a white-collar worker.
Living in a first-tier city, the house and car are provided by parents, but fortunately, the wife's family is well-off, and the two are also well-fed. However, after two years of marriage, Luo Feng's marriage went wrong. He doesn't feel fresh with his wife, so he often chats with women in the company and even goes to nightclubs for fun. His wife caught him cheating twice. On the surface, Luo Feng repented, but secretly he went his own way. Because in his view, women are just an object and a way of recreation, and this materialized female thinking is completely incompatible with their higher education.
The reason is that he is an only child, his parents earn a lot of money, and he grew up in a carefree environment. Because I am smart and eager to learn, I have been praised by teachers and neighbors, and I have developed a self-centered, conceited and selfish character. He doesn't know how badly the betrayal of marriage has hurt his wife. In a conversation, he asked me: Is it true that the more women a man conquers, the more attractive he proves?
I gave him a negative answer to this question, but he never accepted my retort. I said: the charm of men comes from quality and talent, not money and looks. The number of women you conquered only shows that you can sleep with women by some means, but it doesn't prove anything else.
Of course, he always stands still and refuses to come out, just like Zhang in the news. Maybe he always thought that he just wanted to be comfortable, and it was wrong to kill his wife for more money. This distorted ideological value of artistic conception makes people feel timid. Therefore, at the end of the article, I advise single women: cherish life and stay away from giant babies.