Cheng Youqing: "What is this? Is the cat stuck with stinky tofu? "
Li Daren: "This is a square lion. Don't you feel like you? "
This is a dialogue in the recently hit idol drama "I may not love you". They are talking about two special gift dolls-the square lion.
Fang Shi, be yourself!
After watching the drama, I accidentally saw an animated work "Miguel said", in which the protagonist is the square lion that appeared in the TV series. In this film, the square-headed lion finds that other lions are round heads and wants to run into the water for a big "facelift" like everyone else. When it came out of the water, its hair was wet, and its head became a strange shape, which looked round and not round. But when it became like this, all the other lions became square lions. Finally, the square lion shook his head and changed back to its original appearance.
Many people in life are like this. They are themselves, but they don't insist. They change themselves with the tide and want to be like others. How can they expect to become unlike themselves or even know themselves? In ancient times, there was a saying that "the east is effective" and it became neither fish nor fowl. As everyone knows, your persistence is the best you can do.
The square-headed lion is born with a square collar, which is the difference between it and other round-necked lions. Is "this unusual thing often makes it stuck, stuck in its own principles, stuck in the struggle of whether to compromise, stuck in the myth that the whole world is right, only my insistence is wrong ..." This is Li Daren's description of the other lion and Cheng Youqing in his eyes.
Li Daren and Cheng Youqing knew each other from high school until they were 30 years old. In the past ten years, they have known her temperament very well. The reason why they chose the square lion as a green birthday present also has its special meaning. "You don't have to worry about your own differences. Just like the square lion I gave you, you should be proud to believe that you are the most unique. " "You are honest, smart, straightforward, aboveboard, and don't compromise easily. Cheng Youqing is so unique, but no one understands it. This may also be the place where others think you are the most imperfect. "
A square lion looks like a blue mirror, and so does Li Daren. He dissected Cheng Youqing, solemnly said every word, and Cheng Youqing was stunned for a moment. However, a young man who is so pursuing perfection immediately questions and refutes when he hears "imperfection", which seems aggressive. "Now!" Just when he was bitten to death, Ren Da replied. As soon as you listen, you want to get to the bottom of your imperfections. The one that is green is presented to us.
When I got home, Youqing sat in front of the dresser with a square lion. The other lion said, "It's not that I don't like you, but I was a little surprised when I first saw myself." It turns out that outsiders can see clearly that there is a person who knows himself better than the party concerned. And that's what a person looks like when he faces his true self in the dead of night.
In the TV series "I may not love you", it is the worst, the most unreal and the most painful time when love is repeatedly compromised by her boyfriend. When her boyfriend asked her to quit her job and work in the gallery, she stuck to her guns and decided to stay in her favorite shoe factory. Stick to your career and go to work in Singapore. This is the most beautiful and greenest. You know what you love and what you want.
Square lion, ours is green, be ourselves!
Fang Shi, learn to be flexible!
"This unusual thing often makes it stuck, stuck in its own principles, stuck in the entanglement of whether to compromise, stuck in the myth that the whole world is right, only my persistence is wrong ..." This is why Cheng Youqing in Li Daren's eyes often sticks to his own principles. Li Daren didn't know the principles of "I can't love you" and "best friend", but they made their own feelings.
Li Daren once said in high school, "I can't like a girl like you". As soon as this statement came out, it was deeply imprinted in the blue memory and lasted for ten years. This sentence often becomes the talk between her and the talented person, and also becomes her own creed to get along with the talented person, which is her own creed. As we all know, the sentence "what you said is not what you meant" is vividly reflected in the talent. Everyone can see that talent likes young people, but only young people are in the dark and always regard him as their best friend. Every time something bothers me, I think of Li Daren first, and I want to talk to him. Over time, it has become a habit that is difficult to get rid of. It is admirable that a friend of more than ten years can do this.