First, the pursuit of excitement and freshness.

Men are naturally curious, possessive and exclusive. Men whose wives are more virtuous, beautiful and generous are more likely to be curious. They have got the goddess that many people dream of. If they have aesthetic fatigue, they want to try different types of women from their wives. So we often see some men whose wives are beautiful and gentle, but the lovers they are looking for are not as good as their wives in all aspects.

Second, the moral sense is low.

True love is based on morality, requires responsibility and responsibility, and has obligations. Men who easily violate the marriage red line have a weak sense of morality and are easy to do things that hurt their partners.

Third, the cost of divorce or infidelity is low.

If the cost of betrayal is very low, or even no cost, then betrayal becomes a natural thing for men without any sense of responsibility. Cheating leads to the dissolution of marriage, which will damage men's economic interests and their reputation, but if the benefits of cheating are higher than the cost of cheating, then cheating is possible. In other words, if a man has a suitor who is good at everything, it is hard for him not to waver; If divorce will make a man suffer huge economic losses and other pressures, he will not easily choose betrayal.

Fourth, the cognition of emotions is relatively shallow.

The reason why many men cheat is the temporary recognition, understanding and care of their extramarital partners, thinking that they have met true love and neglected their partners who have been with them for many years.

Fifth, the insecurity brought by family background.

Many men are seriously insecure because of their family background, and it is difficult to change even if they enter marriage. Because the sense of insecurity brought by family background is deeply rooted and difficult to change. After entering marriage, it is easy to doubt the other half, and the understanding of marriage is one-sided.

There are even many prejudices, hard to trust others and stubborn thoughts. This is actually a subconscious self-protection mechanism. When you make a mistake or even cheat, you will always protect yourself for the first time and constantly push the fault to external factors. On the contrary, you will blindly pass the buck. For example, your cheating is caused by the other party seducing him, saying that his wife is not gentle and considerate. Other reasons: work pressure, family pressure, long-term separation, marital relationship breakdown, disharmony in sexual life, and disagreement on three views. .....