About emotion:
Personally, I think the sign of emotional maturity is that I no longer place my desire on the trust of others.
I have been going through this process for many years. I used to fantasize that others could make my life more exciting. It was not until 19 that I completely returned my strength to myself and became the creator of my own happiness. Others just need to be themselves. This relationship is not based on needs and expectations, but more on allowing and paying, so relaxing has become a daily life.
At this point, we can learn from lollipops. Whenever you hold her, it's sweet. Let her go without complaining or pulling. She won't be sweet because of your arrival, because it is sweet in itself.
Of course, what I have gained the most this year is my business partners. Because we can really be together for life, I call them life partners. Their friendship is my most satisfying part.
Now, every weekday morning, we will study together and witness each other's growth. We have been doing this unconsciously for half a year. Isn't it cool? Call us crazy.
In the future, we will travel together. When our baby grows up, maybe we will settle in a beautiful city together, such as Dali. Last year, I went to play in 65438+February, which really made me linger ~
About the family:
In June of 20 years, I asked my grandmother to go back to her hometown. This is the first time since Xiaomei was born five years ago that my husband and I are in charge of everything for her. I have also changed from an out-of-touch mother to a mother who picks up the baby from school every day and plays with her. This change is really a considerable growth for me.
Sure enough, it is the happiest thing to assume the role given by 100% God.
In the process of being with Xiaomei for nearly a year, I can see her inner kindness. Many times, my heart feels purified. To this end, I wrote a short composition. Actually, there are many more. I plan to record it slowly in the future. After the summer vacation, she should go to primary school. Over the past six months, my father and I have consciously accompanied her to learn something informative. I can see her amazing learning ability and her excitement when learning a knowledge point. Of course, there are times when I don't want to learn, which also reflects my laziness.
Today is my birthday. Xiaomei gave me a sachet bought in Nanluoguxiang. I said, just one sachet? What else (I expect her to do something for me)? The little guy actually said, mom, do you know? Send goose feathers a thousand miles away, the ceremony is light and the affection is heavy ~! This is a story she learned some time ago, and she immediately used it. Well, this flexibility is also a great gift.
For my family, in fact, I know that I still have many leisure and elegant artistic cells to play, such as being a chef, a baker, a flower arranger and a space organizer. . . These parts will develop slowly in the future, thanks to my husband's permission and commitment now.
Healthy and beautiful:
This year, I really have a feeling of growing against my age. My face is getting wetter and my figure is getting better and better. There is a natural vest line on the belly, the skin is very smooth and delicate, and the hair is more supple and shiny.
All this beauty is attributed to my comprehensive nutrition knowledge this year and the correct use of nutrients, which is presented bit by bit with the help of Melaleuca's quality products.
I know that the concept of supplementary nutrition is really not available to everyone. Everyone thinks that eating can meet daily needs. However, with the deterioration of the environment, soil, water and air are being polluted, and the nutrients contained in the food we eat can not support the raw material demand of our body's daily metabolism. Moreover, as life becomes more and more busy, the work pressure and even the survival pressure affected by the epidemic have increased dramatically, causing many people to take it out with a bite. Every day, new cells are much smaller than dead cells, which is the beginning of aging and the source of disease.
Therefore, it is really necessary to know how to supplement the nutrition needed by the body every day.
If the wall is broken, bricks will mend it, because the wall is made of bricks.
The chair is broken, so the wood will repair it, because the chair is made of wood.
When the body is broken, nutrition should be supplemented, because people are made up of water, protein, fat, minerals, vitamins, carbohydrates and cellulose! ! !
The reason is as simple as that, but many people don't know that they are sub-healthy and sick, and they just take medicine. Is the body made of medicine?
Of course, I didn't understand it before. This is my biggest harvest and practice this year. Human flesh proves the importance of nutrition.
This is our secret weapon to keep young and healthy, which is thousands of times more reliable than plastic surgery!
If you are on the same frequency as me, welcome to be a member of my melody. I am also willing to link with you, be your personal health and beauty consultant, and spoil you for life!
About wealth:
This plate is really the most interesting part.
Looking back on my thirty-five years, there is one thing that can really make me brag all my life.
That was when I was 23 years old. I was teaching IELTS listening. I heard a sentence: girls should consider the issue of providing for the aged in their early twenties. Thinking that I was 23 years old, I went downstairs to China Merchants Bank to buy a pension insurance and a fixed investment fund. I only voted for two 300 s a month. /kloc-after 0/2 years, I have been holding this fund, which has doubled over the years. This is probably the smartest choice I have ever made.
Compared with others, all the money I have invested in these years because of my greed and quick success has rarely paid off. I really bought a lot of painful lessons during the period.
This really taught me a lot. For the management of wealth, we really have to respect the laws of nature. Find a stream running into the sea and make a boat. You don't need much ability and effort to reach the sea. Inaction is the best state.
Starting from the heart also really determines the result, which has been profoundly verified in many project choices I have made over the years.
Of course, this part is still a primary school student, and it is also the part I need to study hard, so now I have a reading meeting with Mr. Yun, the founder of wealth culture, every Sunday, and I have benefited a lot every time. Life really needs a mentor, especially the wealth part.
Creating wealth, managing wealth, controlling wealth and surpassing wealth require lifelong learning.
Of course, wealth refers not only to money, but also to many intangible parts. Compound interest on time is a valuable wealth, which should be well used.
Writing, recording, constant feeling and output are my new plans after I was 35 years old. Over time, I will be able to inspire and contribute more lives.
About occupation:
After graduating from college in 2008, I have been engaged in my own professional-related work, including being an IELTS teacher in New Oriental for five years. Part-time job is not easy. Winter vacation and summer vacation are generally 10 hours of classes. Being tired into a dog is really the truest portrayal. Although the class fee is good, it is a well-paid occupation today, but when I was pregnant in 14, I realized that I was just a well-paid hourly worker. I didn't make any money when I stopped because the New Oriental teacher didn't have a basic salary. This is not the life I want, and I can't give any peace of mind and stability. I am determined to change from this painful experience! I haven't gone to work since I gave birth.
I began to look for various opportunities online, eager to find a platform or project that can still make money after stopping. It took me five years to find it. During this period, I really contacted dozens or even hundreds of platforms and projects, and I have made great achievements in several platforms. For example, I 15 accumulated a team of 30,000 people in MMM for half a year. At that time, I was really brainwashed by Mavrodi's idea, and thought it could really be subverted. 16 live broadcast, one person did one tenth of the performance of the whole platform. It was really beautiful then. Every time I go to a meeting, I think everyone knows everything. Ha ha. /kloc-engaged in so-called cross-border e-commerce in 0/7 years, and also achieved the so-called global vice president. /kloc-studied marketing with zhiduoxing teacher in 0/8 years. 10 day, 500,000 people are online synchronously, and the harvest is120,000. Of course, there are countless small projects and attempts ~ I call myself an internet surfer, and my name is very nice, but what is not nice is actually a headless fly haha.
Because, these projects and platforms, without exception, can not last long, and there is no need to face zero again and again! Come and go, is it interesting? I began to ask myself, is this what I want? Obviously not!
At the same time, I witnessed many people,
I finally succeeded, and there is no affection between husband and wife.
I finally succeeded, but my inner romance has completely disappeared.
I finally succeeded, but my health has been serious.
I finally succeeded, but success did not bring pride, more worry, more regret!
19 I really fell into deep confusion and took the initiative to press the pause for myself? Crucially, I began to observe for ten days, that is, from 4: 30 in the morning to 9: 30 in the evening, sitting quietly for ten hours every day. I asked myself what I really wanted. I also went to the Indian global village, a community established by highly conscious human beings on earth and established by the United Nations, and asked myself what the future I really wanted was.
When I keep asking myself this question, I find the answer is really clear:
What I want is actually very simple. There are only three dreams:
1. My family and I have been healthy all our lives.
2. Good love, good friendship and good mutual trust.
3. Income that can grow in an orderly manner
However, looking back on all my previous choices, I really can't satisfy all my wishes, but these dreams are on the way to realization. Until the end of 19, I met the career of Melaleuca.
My family and I have been healthy all our lives, so I must study and invest. If I don't pay attention to it, waiting for nature to take its course is obviously the same as waiting for pie to fall from the sky! Active learning, active health is the way out! So, I began to learn the lost book Nutrition. I also have a year of nutrient intake practice, and I know I am approaching this dream! Of course, this is due to my career as a musician.
There is a good relationship of love, friendship and mutual trust, and it is necessary to spend time with it, and it is only possible to grow up together! Through Melaleuca, this dream is also coming true.
The income that can grow in an orderly way, my ideal income, is not a one-time income of millions or tens of millions, but a continuous wealth like oxygen. In fact, if a person is willing to be down-to-earth, study hard and accumulate in some valuable fields, as long as people have this demand, I take this matter seriously. As I saw in India, the villagers in the global village can be happy all their lives, because they can produce a good soy sauce, a delicious bread and a delicious sauce, and then the whole family can live on them.
I really feel that this operation of Melaleuca has given me a chance to work hard to develop my future. Why?
Because I should be healthy, I take food and nutritional supplements seriously, I take care of myself very healthily, and the people around me are very healthy, beautiful and young.
I can also increase my influence and income, so why not? Isn't this the effortless part?
At the same time, because the whole management design of Melody House is based on sharing and helping others, I can't just use it to help the people I love, so that the people I love have the opportunity to become healthy and have a good mutually beneficial relationship and help each other effortlessly. I don't need to spend so much effort to maintain this part of love and this part of friendship, but I naturally have it.
I think from this perspective, musicians really have a good culture and system.
We can make good use of Melaleuca's strength, Melaleuca's stores all over the country, Melaleuca's 35-year experience in health exploration, and social elites, competent employees and management talents from all over the world!
I think it is possible to use them to help me realize my three big dreams!
I am really grateful to God for letting me know my future direction at the age of 35 and find a career that I really love and can last for a lifetime. I am really happy and grateful for all the gifts.
Happy birthday to Su Wan, a 35-year-old senior girl! Slowly meet a higher version of yourself!