Before, I never understood why Ma Yili chose to forgive the article for cheating, and the whole world knew it.

Later, after more than ten years of marriage, I watched the people around me on and off, and gradually realized that marriage has never had anything to do with vanity, just a shoe on your feet. Only you know whether it is appropriate or not.

Sometimes, although outsiders have to go their separate ways when driving, only they know what they want and what is the most suitable.

My friend Meng Xiao was young and beautiful when she got married, and looked isolated.

But after marriage, they have to live on daily necessities, and slowly, they have become middle-aged women. I used to feel different from those tacky and greasy middle-aged people, but later I found out that I really became you when I grew up.

Mr Meng's husband, Zhang Kai, has been doing business. First I made clothes, then I opened restaurants, hotels and homestays. I have been tossing and turning all these years. No way, how can I live at home without making money?

In recent years, I have been doing business with my buddies outside, and the two have gathered less and left more.

When Mr. Meng was pregnant for three months, she found an affair with the waiter in the shop. Mr. Meng said that he thought he was married to love. In recent years, he has been running around, and Mr. Meng never thought that he would betray him.

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However, this is the case. He slapped himself. Mr. Meng wanted a divorce at that time, and he made up his mind. Even Zhang Kai knelt down and begged for mercy, and he wouldn't forgive himself.

Mr Meng wants to take the children, the house and the tickets, and let Zhang Kai go out cleanly to see if Xiaoxu will take him.

Zhang Kai said he didn't agree to divorce. He said that he was just confused for a moment, and his wife and children were not around, so he indulged himself and had sex after drinking.

However, he never thought about divorce.

Zhang Kai and Mr Meng were childhood friends. They went through hard times together, and the old and the young grew up together. I don't want to divorce, and I can't bear to divorce myself. Children cannot live without their parents. If the elderly on both sides know that they have high blood pressure and high heart disease, something may happen.

In short, no divorce.

Mr. Meng thought that if he divorced, his financial conditions would definitely be much worse, but he didn't care. However, he has to suffer with his daughter, and there are two treasures in his stomach. If divorced, the child will be aborted.

Reasoning, Mr. Meng forgave Zhang Kai, and as long as we can live a good life in the future, then we will turn this matter over.

Women's tolerance is not as easy as it is said, but biting their teeth and swallowing blood.

After this incident, Meng Xiao began to keep all the money in his own hands, and bought a house for his parents under the pretext. In fact, it's not that I don't understand. Mr. Meng is arranging a retreat for himself.

Mr Meng loves his children very much, and Zhang Kai knows that even after the divorce, this house will provide protection for his daughter's future. Therefore, he did not refuse.

Meng Xiao has bought insurance for the elderly and children, and the guarantee that he can invest has been completed.

The price of forgiveness is that Zhang Kai still has a complete home, but if there is any accident next time, this person will really have both money and people.

03

More than half a year later, Bauer was born, and the family of four was happy.

Nowadays, business dealings require that all money should be declared to Mr. Meng. Mr. Meng once told me that you don't have to struggle or be out of balance. I will choose to forgive, because I love you, there is no doubt about it. It goes without saying that women are good to you, and you know it.

It's just that I don't know if there will be the next Xiaoxu or anyone else. I am middle-aged and have a pair of children. Anyway, I want to grow up with them and always leave some money for our mother and son.

If you love us, our family of four will be very happy. If you have a heart and want to change your life for the rest of your life, I would like to say goodbye to you. Don't glare at each other.

This is marriage, perhaps not as romantic and beautiful as it looks.

When I was a child, everyone thought that love was two of a kind, regardless of everything. Because I love you, I forgot myself.

Love is full of water. For love, you can forget all worldly things.

However, people don't know until middle age that love and marriage also have costs. Love is never a moth to the fire, desperate. Marriage must have a way out, or you love me, but if you leave, I'm afraid it will be torn beyond recognition.

Love with sensibility and think with reason.

For example, Mr. Meng can give a warm home and plan for the future of the mother and son. Maybe this is the real marriage.

I once asked, under such circumstances at that time, why should we bring Bauer back to life? Meng Xiao said that he gradually realized that only children are his own, and the years when he grew up with them are the real happiness.

When you have the ability to plan for the future, why not allow the arrival of the baby to be born?

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The marriage of middle-aged people is sincere, and there are no impurities in love. The marriage of middle-aged people is also rational. When we are in love, we can spend a full moon together. When we stop loving, we can still find ourselves.

When you are in a besieged city, you can give your children a sweet harbor; When you leave, you also have the ability to protect your children for life. This is what parents should do.

I don't know. How do you understand it? I believe that independence, strength, love and awe are the true colors of marriage and love.