1. Wedding preparation
1. 1. Decide the wedding date, place, ceremony and wedding reception method.
1.2. Determine the wedding budget
1.3. Draw up the guest list
1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan.
1.5. Determine the best man and bridesmaid.
1.6. Determine the wedding witness
Preparation before the wedding
2. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.
2. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about wedding planning and progress.
2. 1.2. Send happy messages to relatives and friends.
2. 1.3. Call relatives and friends in other places.
2. 1.4. Confirmation of attendance of relatives and friends
2. 1.5. Determine the auxiliary staff on the wedding day, and define the division of labor (coordination between men and women, hotel coordination, fireworks display, hotel welcome, wedding sign-in, wedding candy distribution, wedding site and hotel new house layout, wedding car, photography).
2. 1.6. Draw a sketch of the wedding reception site, indicating the relatives and friends at each table.
2. 1.7. Both men and women welcome guests, and the bride and groom are familiar with the sketch of the wedding banquet and the seating of relatives and friends of all parties.
2. 1.8. Making wedding cards
2. 1.9. Make wedding plans and determine the list of relevant personnel and contact information.
2.2. Buy wedding supplies
2.2. 1. New furniture
2.2. 1. 1. Household appliances and furniture
2.2. 1.2. Bedding
2.2.2. Wedding supplies ordering
2.2.2. 1. Wedding dresses of the bride and groom
2.2.2.2. Wedding ring.
2.2.2.3. Bride cosmetic
2.2.2.4. Wedding stickers, red envelopes and happy characters.
2.2.2.5. Red ribbons, colored ribbons, flowers, pop-ups (or petals), colored balloons, candles, wide double-sided tape and transparent tape, festive supplies, a full set of happy characters, cold fireworks (as the case may be) and an attendance book.
2.2.2.6. Tobacco, wine and drinks.
2.2.2.7. Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea.
2.2.2.8. Digital camera memory card or film.
2.2.2.9. Flowers and fruits.
2.3. Preparation of bride and groom images
2.3. 1. The bride starts to take care of her skin.
2.3.2. The groom cuts his hair
2.4. Decorate the new house
2.5. Determine the wedding host (or wedding company)
2.5. 1. Communicate with them the plans and ideas of the wedding day.
2.6. Wedding reservation
2.6. 1. Estimate the number of guests
2.6.2. Estimate the number of banquets
2.6.3. Choose the location of the wedding banquet
2.6.4. Confirm the banquet menu and price.
2.6.5. Confirm the acoustic effect of the wedding banquet.
2.6.6. Coordinate the wedding banquet arrangement and other details with the hotel.
2.6.7. Book a banquet
2.7. Wedding Makeup Appointment
2.7. 1. Choose a place for makeup.
2.7.2. Communicate with makeup artists
2.7.3. Confirm the shape of the wedding day.
2.7.4. Make an appointment for the specific time of makeup.
2.8. Wedding car reservation
2.8. 1. Determine the number of wedding cars.
2.8.2. Make an appointment to tie the float.
2.8.3. Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car on the wedding day.
2.8.4. Booking a wedding car
2.9. Wedding camera reservation
2.9. 1. Determine the number of photographs and videos.
2.9.2. Choose a photographer for the wedding day.
2.9.3. Arrange the division of labor between photography and video recording.
2.9.4. Prepare photographic equipment.
2.9.5. Make an appointment for photography.
2. 10. Others
2. 10. 1.
2. 10.2. Determine the child who presses the bed
2. 10.3. Prepare guest rooms for friends and relatives from afar.
Prepare the day before the wedding
3. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.
3. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about the completion of wedding preparations.
3. 1.2. Make final communication with the preparatory group on the preparation and division of labor on the wedding day.
3. 1.3. According to the preparation, communicate with the host about the ceremony flow on the wedding day.
3. 1.4. Communicate with the best man and bridesmaid again.
3. 1.5. Finally confirm the relatives and friends who helped.
3. 1.6. finally confirm the details, vehicles, photos and makeup of the wedding banquet.
3.2. Confirm the preparation of the speaker on the wedding day.
3.2. 1. Preparation of witnesses' speeches
3.2.2. Preparation of Parents' Representatives' Speech
3.2.3. Prepare the speeches of guest representatives (as appropriate)
3.2.4. Preparation of the bride at the wedding
3.2.5. Problems that the bride and groom may encounter in the wedding or bridal chamber.
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Question 2: What should I buy and prepare to get married in the countryside? The wedding plan should have started months ago. As for the rules, I believe the old people there should know. As for some of the processes I provide below, you should know something, otherwise it will be bad to make trouble in your busy schedule. As for the detailed arrangement, find a wedding company, and they will help you organize it very carefully:
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Question 3: What are the customs of marriage in rural areas? What do you need to do? The customs of every place are not necessarily the same, but people's wishes for newcomers should be the same Every link is marked with wishes for a better life. Marriage customs in rural areas can be divided into several steps: engagement, auspicious choice, preparation for marriage, wedding, marriage and marriage.
1, engagement: Usually, the man asks the matchmaker to introduce the matchmaker, and prepares a gift to send an invitation with the man's birthday on it. After the woman receives the post, it is calculated according to the woman's eight characters. If it is reconciled, I will reply to Jane's promise. This is called a post, and it is also a formal engagement.
2. Choose an auspicious day: that is, the man proposes the wedding date to the woman. Please ask the Yin and Yang teachers to work out the auspicious day first, and avoid Singles' Day and Dark Day. There are still two days, especially Flower Festival and Laba Festival. After choosing, write the happy event on red paper and give the gift to the woman by the matchmaker. If the woman has no objection, the two sides will begin to prepare for the marriage.
3. Preparation for marriage: the man builds a new house and decorates the room, and the woman buys a dowry. Dowry can be divided into full marriage and half marriage. Married people have four sets of clothes and quilts, which means that the four seasons are prosperous; Half-marriage is two sets, symbolizing couples. Most middle-class families are married, and most farmers are semi-married. Very rich people buy a full dowry, which is extremely luxurious. One or two days before the auspicious day, the man prepared a big gift and sent it to the woman's house, including meat, chicken, goose, clothes and so on.
4. Wedding: The wedding time is in the early morning or early morning. When the wedding is held, the man prepares a sedan chair to the woman's house to receive the wedding.
5. Marriage: The bride and groom worship heaven and earth first, ancestors first, parents later, and then. After the ceremony, the groom took off the bride's veil. Then set the table and entertain the guests. At the banquet, the bride and groom should propose a toast to each guest in a certain order, such as intimacy and respect.
6. Noisy rooms: usually on the wedding night, some last for several days. When the dormitory is noisy, "no age for three days", elders, peers, younger relatives and guests are allowed to play, and there is no taboo. Young people have the most active sex with each other, and there are many strange questions and games for newcomers to answer or complete, which makes people laugh and play tricks on newcomers. Newcomers shall not refuse to answer without special reasons.
Question 4: What items do you need to prepare at home on the wedding day in rural areas? On the wedding day, you need a banquet, a master of ceremonies and a supervisor to keep accounts. Wedding rooms are used for festive decoration. The bridal chamber can invite friends to make trouble, and friends can help you make trouble.
Question 5: What rural wedding supplies list meals should be prepared for rural marriage? Jujube Quilt.
Attach a wedding day:
20 17 wedding auspicious day: 1 month.
On Monday, 20 17 0 12 10, Capricorn rushed to the east.
Friday, 20th/KOOC-0/70/KOOC-0/6/KOOC-0/0, Zhu Chong, Aries (Dinghai) Dongsha.
On Saturday, 20 17 0 17 10, the goat rushed to the north.
Monday, 20 17 0 19 10, the white sheep rushed to the south of the tiger (Geng Yin).
2017,01,15 Aries rushes north on Sunday.
On Monday, 20 17, 0 1, 16, the goat hit the chicken (Ding You).
Wednesday 20 17 0 10 18, Dongsha, Zhu Chong, Aries.
On Monday, 2017 065438+1October 23rd, Aquarius rushed north.
On Saturday, 20th17065438+128th October, Aquarius washed chicken (Ji You) to the west.
Sunday, 2017 065438+1October 29th, Aquarius rushes to the south.
2017,065438+1October, 3 1, Aquarius rushes north.
20 17 auspicious wedding day: February
20 17, Monday, February 6, Aquarius rushed to the south of the horse (Wuwu).
20 17 Thursday, February 9th, wash chicken in Aquarius West.
20 17 Sunday ad 12 February Aquarius rushes to the north.
20 17, 13, February 1, Aquarius rushes west.
On Saturday, February 7, 65438, Aquarius rushed to the south of Ma ().
20 17 on Friday, February 24th, Pisces rushed to the north.
On Saturday, February 25th, 2065, 438+07 Pisces took the bull (Ding Chou) to the west.
20 17 auspicious wedding day: March
20 17 Thursday, March 2, Pisces rushes to Manan (noon)
2065438+Sunday, March 5, 2007 Pisces rushed to the west.
Wednesday, March 8, 20 17, Pisces rushes north.
20 17 On Thursday, March 9th, Pisces rushed to the west.
Friday, March, 2065, 438+07 AD 10 Pisces rushed to the south of the tiger (Geng Yin).
20 17, March 15, Pisces rushed to the east.
20 17 on Monday, March 20th, Aries rushed to the north.
2017,21,Tuesday, March, Aries rushes to the west.
20 17 wedding date: 4th.
April Saturday 0 17, AD 20 1 Aries rushes north.
20 17 Sunday, April 2, Aries rushes west.
On Sunday, April 9th, 20 17, Aries took the monkey (Geng Shen) to the north.
Wednesday, 20th17th April12nd, Zhu Chong, Aries, Dongsha.
On Thursday, April 20 17 13, Aries rushed to the north.
Friday, 20 17 in April, 2 1 year, Taurus rushed to Monkey North (Renshen).
On Tuesday, April 25, 20 17, the bull raccoon ran north.
Wedding auspicious day: May
On Thursday, May 20th17th A.D. 1 1 day, the bull constellation rushed to the north.
On Saturday, 20th17th A.D.13rd, the bull pulley rushed to the south of Ma (Wu Jia).
On Tuesday, May 20 17 16, the bull stood up and drove the chicken (Ding You) to the west.
Wednesday, May 20 17, 2065 438+07, Bull House rushes to Gounan (martial arts).
On Friday, May 7, 20 17, the bull raccoon ran north on 19.
20 17 Saturday, May 20th, cattle (ugly) rushed west.
20 17 On Tuesday, May 23rd, Gemini rushed to the north.
Wedding auspicious day: June
20 17, on Saturday, June 3rd, Gemini rushed to Dongsha, Rabbit (E-Mao).
20 17 On Sunday, June 4th, Gemini rushed to the north.
Saturday, 20th/July 10 AD, Gemini pet dog (Shu Ren) Shanan.
June Sunday 20 17, 1 1, 2065438, Gemini Wash Pig (Guihai).
Tuesday, June 20 17 A.D. 13 Gemini Bull Run (Ugly ... >>
Question 6: What do wedding guests in rural areas prepare? I am from the countryside, too. Generally, when getting married, the woman doesn't take money, and the man pays for it, so that the woman can buy what she needs. For example, sending motorcycles is very popular in our country. This is just an analogy. What you want to buy depends on your two ideas. Some money is also a gift. And when you have a child, the woman's parents will use the money as a gift for you.
Question 7: List of essential items for rural weddings: snacks and water for bridesmaids.
Wedding flow chart
Small mirror
Suction tube (will not damage lip gloss)
pain-killer
Digestive aid
Reserved length * * *
Hair styling spray
Lipstick and foundation
Mobile phones and spare batteries
Red envelopes; Red paper containing money as gifts, bribes or kickbacks; red envelope; red paper containing money as a gift, bribe or kickback;?red packet
Safety pin
nail polish
eye drops
Spare contact lenses and care products
Spare jewelry (earrings, necklaces, bracelets)
hairclip
Oil-absorbing paper
Mouthwash, breath freshener, dental floss
Contact list of wedding planners
Sewing kit and scissors
Band-aid sanitary napkin
nail file
Cotton ball, cotton pad
insole
muffler
Perfume, a must-have spare shirt for the groom and groomsman.
Spare bow tie or tie
Spare socks
Shoe polishing tools, spare shoelaces
hospital gauze
Handkerchiefs, tissues
Shaver and shaving liquid
nailclippers
Spare cufflinks and buttons
look
Mobile phones and spare batteries
Question 8: What rural wedding preparation processes are less complicated than urban weddings? In contrast, weddings in rural areas are simple, lively and festive.
Rural wedding day process
1. Organize people to pack jiaozi for breakfast for the wedding party early.
2. Stick couplets, happy characters, trees, telephone poles and stone mills in front of the sun.
3. The wedding department installed arches and stereos.
4. All wedding cars arrive at the wedding department at 6: 00 on the same day to arrange wedding cars. The head of the team is responsible for arranging the driving route and decorating the wedding car. At the end of the bus, the photographer, cameraman and bride took flowers and corsage in the main bus and took them home together.
5. Go home and arrange for drivers, relatives and friends to eat jiaozi, prepare to wear corsage and start the day's work.
6, ready to go, the groom first wears a corsage for his parents, and his father pours genealogy. Salute (the groom salutes with his father)
7. The first one in the queue, the second one in the father's hand is holding wine and wine glasses, the third one in the mother's hand is holding a quilt, and the groom comes to the front of the car with a bouquet and a corsage. The father gave the groom three glasses of practice wine and encouraged his son to pick up the bride and come back early.
8. The motorcade departs according to the prescribed route, and can change parking spaces on the way to the bride's house.
9. When the motorcade arrives at the bride's house, the two big guests of the bride's house need to go downstairs in advance to greet the groom to get off. The groom called the door to give a red envelope. The groom needs to rush through the gate until he meets the bride successfully.
10. After seeing the bride, the groom presents flowers to her, then wears jewelry, looks for shoes, eats jiaozi, steals chopsticks and cups.
1 1. Take a family photo at the bride's house, the wedding host will preside over the farewell ceremony, and finally the parents will cook a steak dinner for the bride.
12, the bride and groom go out. The bride cannot turn back.
13. Photographers on the road will arrange spacious avenues to change formations. If time permits, new people can be arranged to shoot outdoor scenery.
14. Arrive at the groom's house according to the agreed time, light firecrackers and set off a salute. The cameraman, Jia Dun, went home and recorded his father lighting the censer candlestick. Then Jia Dun, his parents and the bride went out to welcome the couple off the sedan chair.
15, after the groom got off the sedan chair, his father gave the groom three glasses of wine, the first one was to worship the sky, the second one was to worship the ground, and the third one was drunk by the groom. It's called triumph wine.
16, Xi Popo gave the bride candy, money to press her waist (12 yuan means she has a son), a baking stove (electric iron) and shoes change. People who mix brides help the bride out of the sedan chair and step on rice cakes and axes (representing Fulinmen and BBK).
17, the couple walked hand in hand on the red carpet, and colorful colored paper fell from the sky. After entering the home, the host simply presided over the worship ceremony. If there is no hotel, all ceremonies will be held directly in the yard. )
18. After the ceremony, the couple entered the bridal chamber, sat down, combed their hair, ate the street, and then arranged for the whole family to take a family photo.
19. If the wedding bride in the countryside changes clothes accompanied by the bridesmaid, the banquet will officially start under the arrangement of the supervisor. In the middle of the banquet, my father will lead the couple to propose a toast.
Question 9: Is there a custom of holding a wedding in the countryside? Rural marriage custom
Marriage in rural areas is very particular, regardless of the time, place and direction of marriage. It is superstitious and has always followed the path left by our ancestors. Let's take a look at the marriage customs in the countryside!
Media theory
This program is a must, whether you are childhood friends or childhood friends, whether you are inseparable or have been together, whether you are inseparable or inseparable. It's not that parents have more face, nor is it to inherit the old adage that "parents' lives are what the media say". In fact, it is a kind of post that your parents stand for you. In other words, when your development is in crisis, it is a signal to stop the arrow.
Of course, some parents will naturally consider the so-called door-to-door factor, and some parents will make a second visit to your chosen object and make a good introduction. Some women's parents do have the idea of getting married legally. In short, parents have their own good intentions.
Kanqin
That is, "blind date". After the matchmaker introduced the woman's appearance and family situation to the man's family, the man initially agreed, so he sent the matchmaker to invite Geng Tie to propose marriage. There are also blind dates first. Generally, unmarried men are shy, and married brothers or uncles go to see them. Girls who are watched often deliberately avoid seeing only their brothers and sisters, so as to guess their looks, commonly known as "touching marriage." So there is a proverb of "blind date uncle". There is no such speculation as a prelude to the wedding.
marry
The matchmaker gave the woman's Geng Tie to the man's parents, and the man put the Geng Tie in front of the Kitchen God Temple. If there are no unlucky things such as throwing dishes, children falling down, quarreling with others within three days, they will initially pass, and some will ask a poem to sign or ask a fortune teller to get married. After liberation, this ethos still exists in rural areas. Even if you are not superstitious, after knowing that the woman's family situation is not suitable for marriage, it is just an excuse for the gods to send signals to avoid making enemies, and the woman's family can also take the opportunity to save face.
be engaged in
After the man's marriage is satisfactory, the matchmaker will send the man's wedding invitation to the woman's house for "opening and closing", and then the two sides will agree on the amount of money to be paid and the thickness of the marriage. This is the so-called "appointment by negotiation". Then the man sent someone to the woman's house to "settle down", with a ring and four kinds of gifts as dowry, and the woman returned shoes and socks. Then the man's family will send bride price, bride price and "sugar golden milk" When the wedding date is set, notify the woman and name it "Send the Day". The two parties hold a banquet to treat guests, which is called "drinking", and the guests should send a betrothal gift.
delivery date
It was at the ripe time that I went to the fortune teller to choose the wedding date, which was the last time I made a supplementary taste for the woman's family.
Marriage plan
Ok, let's get down to business. Weddings usually last three days. The first day is called moving things, which means moving things. The next day is the main banquet, and every three days is the resumption banquet.
Treat, this is the preparation stage of the wedding. Marriage in rural areas is not like sending invitations in cities. The day before the wedding, the bride or groom will go door to door asking for invitations. "I'm getting married tomorrow. Come and help me early." Because the countryside is generally scattered, people who pay will be exhausted within one day. There are hundreds of gangs in a family, but they can't forget to say, "body double's beds are all covered."
(of a newlywed wife) going to her parents' home with her newlywed husband.
The day after the wedding, the bride invited her aunt to meet her uncle's elders. On the third day, the bride, led by her sister-in-law, introduced her neighbors, old and young, offered sugar tea, or ordered tea with sugar cake bait, and the drinker gave her money. Walk around the house, then go to the kitchen, worship the stove and learn to cook. On the sixth day, the newlyweds went to their home to meet for dinner, which was called "home visit". The next day, my husband went to the groom's house for dinner, calling it "seeing relatives."
Question 10: rural wedding necessities list: banquet, red envelopes, new houses ... wine, cigarettes, melon seeds, peanuts, candy, etc ... Besides buying furniture and bride price, you can hold a simple wedding in your own home according to your hometown customs. Just hold a banquet1~ 20 thousand or so, and the countryside can hold its own wine.