People are not interested in anything when they are in low mood, so they should learn to divert their attention. Now that some things have become facts, try to accept and face them. One person cannot change the world, and the world will not change because of you. What you can do is to adapt to the world, don't fall into a dead end, and don't compare with others. You should have your own wonderful life.
3. Life is like a road, you need patience. Growth takes away not only time, but also the courage that is not afraid of losing. Since we all know that complaining is useless to us, we should always remind ourselves that as long as it is beneficial to us, we must do everything possible to practice it.
4. People can really live, but don't be too serious. Many times, in order to get real happiness, we need patience. After a long walk, I always want to see a scenery, because it is unforgettable; When I think of someone, I always cry. Life is always ups and downs, don't complain about anything, no matter how happy you are, you will have troubles; No matter how unlucky you are, you will be lucky.
5, don't miss the past too much, because it will bring you sadness; Embarrassment is a common state in life, and some things are incomprehensible when we are young. When we understand, we are no longer young. Some things in the world can be made up, and some things can never be made up. The process of polishing yourself is painful, but in the end you can shape yourself better.
6. Be optimistic and try to smile! Everyone has their own beauty. There are many beautiful things in the world. If God didn't give it to us, make it yourself. What you pay now will be a kind of precipitation, and they will pave the way silently, just to make you a better person.
7. In life, you will meet all kinds of people. Don't take others' concern for granted. In our life, we make choices all our lives. After making every choice, we have to face a result. Some results may make us confused and at a loss, but we have to bear them.
8. Being tired is not a kind of incompetence, but a kind of responsibility. Tired, because you know; Tired, because the burden is heavy, you know, as long as you back off or even give up completely, you won't be tired again. But you don't want to and you can't. All the responsibilities are for tomorrow to be better than today. Since you have chosen to pursue, don't cry. Hold on, hold on today, and happiness will be one step closer. What really makes people tired is inner despair.
9. Sometimes, someone has to make us cry to wake us up. In fact, we should have someone to make us smile. The only thing you can get for nothing in this world is poverty, and the world will not stop because of your fatigue. If you don't work hard today, you'll have to run tomorrow. If it is unavoidable, all we can do is to make ourselves stronger and stronger enough to meet the next challenge.
Confusion is what youth should look like.
First, if you want to catch everything, you may end up with nothing.
Second, the pain of speaking has subsided, and it is only when you don't mention it that you touch your heart.
Third, youth is a heavy rain. Even if I have a cold, I still hope to take another bath in the future.
4. You have your's sufferings, we have our sufferings, you have your's blessings, and we have our blessings. Don't think that you are unfortunate, and don't think that others are happy. Everyone's life is different, and everyone's path is different.
Fifth, confusion is what youth should look like.
6. I want a small house. I can be your little wife and walk through the alley in front of the door with a vegetable basket. You don't have to wash the dishes after dinner, but you have to clean the table, and you have a chubby child who is as cute as a meatball. When you have a white beard and sit in an old chair at home, will you still remember this good day and my beautiful flowered skirt?
7. spoony people always hold the idea that even I am moved by myself. Is there any reason why she should not be moved by me? But persistent pursuit can only prove that you are a persistent person, that's all.
Eight, the so-called growth is to look down on what was originally valued and value what was originally underestimated. Many people come into your life just to teach you a lesson and then turn around and leave. When everything was calm, I suddenly found that habit is a terrible thing that people can't quit and forget.
9. What does it mean to get to the point? I just feel that my life has not been wasted, my happiness index is high, my thoughts are full, and I don't have too many regrets when I look back on my life path. If I let you live my life again, you are still willing to live like this.
Life is happy, you don't have to prove anything to others. Don't be too busy watching others go the wrong way.
Eleven, the curtain of the life stage may be opened at any time, the key is whether you are willing to perform or choose to avoid.
Twelve, perhaps, what God didn't give me, no matter how tight my arm was tied, I still missed it; For me, no matter how I missed it in the past, I will have it.
Thirteen, personal safety is not as good as peace of mind, and the width of the house is not as good as the width of the mind.
Fourteen, some things can be cultivated, and the distance can be shortened by time. Now it is found that time can shorten the distance between people and push people further. Good feelings can't replace everything.
Loneliness means lack of wine in the stomach, lack of smoke in the lungs, and lack of you in my heart.
Sixteen, in life, there are many fleeting, like saying goodbye at the station, just hugging each other, and in an instant, they are all over the world. Most of the time, you don't understand, and neither do I. That's it. When you talk, you change. Listening is tiring. I'm tired of watching it. You will slow down when you follow. When you walk, you spread out. When you love, you fade. I forget it when I think about it.
17. Being able to give love is bliss, and being able to eliminate troubles is wisdom.
The most precious thing is not the material you have, but the people who accompany you. You can't force others to love you, you can only make yourself a worthy person, and the rest depends on fate.
No matter when you start, it is important not to stop after you start. No matter when it ends, it is important not to regret it after it ends.
20. Maturity is not that people grow old, but that tears can still laugh.
Twenty-one, only experienced the torture of hell, the power of conquest of paradise. Only bloody fingers can play the swan song of the world.
Twenty-two, when love has changed, how much courage is there to love?
No matter how great you think you are, there will always be someone better than you.
Twenty-four, there is pressure, but it will not be overwhelmed; Confused, but never desperate.
Twenty-five, true purity is not purity, not ignorance of the surrounding sinister. But after seeing all kinds of hardships and ugliness, I still retain my original kindness and innocence and stick to my own principles.
Twenty-six, it only takes one minute to meet someone; It only takes one sentence to like someone; It only takes one day to fall in love with someone; But it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Twenty-seven, if love can be explained, the oath can be modified. If you meet me, we can reschedule. Then life will be easier. If one day, I can finally forget you. However, this is not a random story. Not tomorrow's play. I couldn't find the manuscript, and then I erased you.
Twenty-eight, we say loneliness when there is no love, and we say loneliness when there is love.
A person's struggle should have its proper appearance.
First, don't complain often.
In life, there will be more or less bumps. Many people will complain, but they are dissatisfied with reality, pay attention to suffering, feel unfair, and believe in flattery. Such people can't control their own lives, but entrust themselves to the outside world and others.
You complain about what you can't do, and the result is always like this: what you can't do or won't do, what you have is gradually lost. Psychological research has found that people's subjective thoughts can affect the development and changes of things, and complaining will only make beautiful and normal things moldy!
We always like to tell others about our past to gain their sympathy, but what we get is to hear about others' sadder past.
Complaining is easy to make people compare with others, and complaining is the most energy-consuming and useless move. Success belongs only to those who go forward bravely without any excuse. Complaining will only make our thoughts stay in the past and will only make our steps stagnate.
On the road of life, everyone can't be smooth sailing, and they will always face various setbacks and difficulties. When we face them, we shouldn't complain, because complaining can't solve any problems and difficulties we encounter at present, it will only make our mood more depressed and irritable.
Second, don't compare yourself with others.
The world is unfair, so don't imagine that you must race at a fair starting point, because when God created man, he didn't put him in the same environment. However, some people say that God is fair, because God has given everyone a soul, neither more nor less.
But why are some people happy, some sad, some blind followers, and some confused? Later, I found that people always like comparison, because there is deviation in comparison, and there is dissatisfaction because of deviation. However, only a few people try to be satisfied because of this dissatisfaction, and most people have resentment and jealousy because of the differences of dissatisfaction.
There is no difference without comparison, at least you won't know it in your heart. If a person compares everything with others, loss, jealousy and inferiority are inevitable.
And a person's struggle should not always compare himself with others. The purpose of comparison is only to let himself know himself more clearly, and then to formulate the correct methods to surpass himself and improve himself. Besides, everyone is different. What you have may not be available to others. Why not cherish what you have?
Third, don't waste time on the wrong people.
Many people don't understand the concept that time is precious when they are young. Because you are young, you can squander that wonderful time.
But when you go from youth to middle age, you will suddenly find that wasting time is really a waste of time. Just playing time. After all, we had a good time. However, if you invest in one share, you will lose everything. How do you feel?
Many things seem invisible, but you think a lot, but they are irreversible. Don't always waste time on the wrong person, and don't reason with people who don't understand, because even if you say vomiting blood, that person still doesn't understand you.
In the same way, don't choose the wrong partner, don't choose the wrong couple, don't find the wrong friend, because you can't afford the time. A person's struggle is not to waste time on all the wrong people and things!
Fourth, don't run away from the problem, but try to get through it.
There are many helplessness in life, and we can't reverse it. On the way to starting a business, you may encounter insufficient funds; At work, there are many complicated and trivial problems; Emotionally, either because of quarreling or because of being alone. A lot of problems followed, from raw materials, daily necessities to weddings and funerals.
The solution of one thing will have the influence of nepotism more or less. Maybe the matter itself won't give you a headache, but nepotism is enough to make you feel at a loss and choose to avoid solving it. For example, many people who are afraid of marriage know that marriage is a beautiful thing, not because they don't want to get married, but because the preparations for the wedding, the entertainment of family and friends, the wedding in the RV, and the married life are enough to make a person feel entangled.
But as a struggling person, you must understand that people will always face many things that they have never experienced, such as fear, nervousness and being at a loss. These emotional experiences are normal. But experience comes from experience, and you can't hide in your safe corner forever.
You need to face it bravely, and avoiding the problem will not solve the problem. Only by facing it and facing it squarely can we feel the feeling of coming back from the dead! Bite your teeth and stick to it for a while, and you will get through it!
Without the vibration of heaven and earth, there can be no vicissitudes of life. Life can't reach its peak without ups and downs. Struggle has always been a high-spirited word, just like a soldier. Used to interpret all the happiness and sadness, sadness and helplessness, success and failure in a person's life. ...
The purpose of a person living in this world is more to find himself and become what he should be, and a person's struggle is to find himself, so a person's struggle should also have its own appearance!
Talk about the classic signatures that romantic couples should have.
Talk about the classic signatures that romantic couples should have.
When you walk slowly in front of my eyes, time seems to freeze at this moment.
When you pass by my heart quietly, every point is so profound.
If you care, you will think; If you don't care, you won't even think about it.
I will be jealous if I love you, and I won't care if I don't love you.
Black paper and white words. It clearly explains our persistence.
In black and white. Clearly recorded our bits and pieces.
Every familiar place has terrible memories #
Behind every memory, there is a bitterness and sadness #
-I'm just me. I just gave up everything for love.
-I'm just me. I'm just a desperate man.
Girl, you are the smoke I inhaled into my lungs, and I can't get rid of it.
Young man, you are a nail in my ear and I can't close it.
There is such a person who can make you laugh happily all the time;
There is a saying that keeps your heart warm;
If you look at it, it will be very thorough and will underestimate you;
Listen, I woke up and began to understand;
There is no reward for giving your heart, and there is no compensation for giving your pain.
I don't want you to bear the pain and stop your tears.
Maybe you should believe it, why not.
Maybe it's time to admit it, why not turn around and leave.
I care about you, because your me is unique,
I care about you because you are the only one for me.
I only have one heart that loves you.
I don't lack anything except your concern for me.
Please cherish my gentleness to you.
Please remember that I love you sincerely.
Please put it down if you can't forget it.
If you can't let go, then don't contact.
Eat and drink, don't take things to heart.
It's time to stay and go. The past will never look back.
Russia's strength does not allow Russia to surrender mechanically.
Russia's pride does not allow Russia to shed tears in this defeat.
Forgetting is another nostalgia for the past. Never forget, please remember.
Giving up is another realization of love. I never got it. Please give up.
There used to be a feeling called friendship, but it is gone.
There was once a love called love, but it was lost.
-I love him. He is the craziest. My dream is shattered, but I won't forget it.
-I love him so much that I stumble and despair. My heart was deeply hurt, but I won't forget it.
If you are not strong, no one will be brave for you.
If you are not brave, no one will be strong for you.
I am not a gentle person at all, but I have been doing everything gentle for you.
I am not a patient person, but I am exhausted with you.
Some pain, what to say, what to say, where to say it and when to say it.
Some secrets should not be said, should not be said, should not be said, should not be said.