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This morning, my wife and I sat in the living room at home and discussed the divorce agreement calmly. Seriously, a year ago, we couldn't believe that our marriage would come to this day. The family couldn't believe it.

I am from Wanggou Town, Fengxian County, and my wife is from Miao Wei Town, Pei County. We all come from the countryside. Therefore, during my college years in Nanjing, I got closer and had contacts every holiday. After graduation from 20 10, we happened to be in the same company again.

It is really natural for us to get married. We can't help shaking our heads when we recall the dribs and drabs before and after marriage. At first we wanted to give each other some time, but now it seems unnecessary.

Soon, we cut to the chase-divorce agreement.

Because I thought it over many days ago, I wrote this agreement in front of my wife in less than 8 minutes. It's simple, it's clear at a glance, and then we sign each other. However, my wife asked for leave after New Year's Day, and the two of us took the children out to play during the holiday.

The divorce agreement is roughly as follows:

A, Nanjing 89 square houses plus parking spaces, owned by his wife;

B, the car I bought myself is my wife's name, which was corrected to my name after the divorce, and the car she drove belongs to her;

C, 6,543,800 yuan+0.2 million yuan was lent to his wife and sister, and it was owned by his wife after recovery;

D, a suite in Fengxian 1 18 square meters belongs to me;

E, the three-and-a-half-year-old daughter is his wife's, and I pay 3000 yuan a month for child support;

F. Both demand deposits are owned by individuals.

When I met my wife, my family was poor. At that time, my father was lying in bed because of hyperosteogeny. Even when we got married, my father couldn't stand it, but my wife finally married me under the pressure of her family.

Eight years after marriage, in order to save money to buy a house, we all rented a small house of about 8 square meters at first, and moved four times in the first three years. Finally, I bought a house of my own on 20 16 1 1.

Our income has also increased gradually. From the initial monthly salary of 4,500 yuan to the current after-tax annual salary of 400,000 yuan, I have experienced twists and turns along the way. My wife went to a foreign-funded enterprise last year, and now she is a human resources manager with an annual salary of 200,000.

On June 20 17, my daughter was born. Because the mother in my hometown couldn't come to help with the children, I went to the aunt of the housekeeping company, which brought a series of contradictions.

In the eyes of the old family, we are a model couple, but whether we are happy or not is only clear to the parties themselves. The main contradiction between us is personality disagreement. She is a strong person and wants me to listen to her in everything. 20 19 in may, one of her girlfriends wanted to borrow 200,000 yuan. I don't think that person is very reliable, so I didn't agree. Finally, my wife lent the money on her own initiative, and finally, she lost all her money.

She takes care of her family so much that her brother spends a lot of money there. Usually she doesn't like things a little, so she breaks plates and bowls. I won't stop until I admit my mistake. She wants to control everything, and I feel tired.

I go out early and come back late every day, and I am responsible for all the expenses at home. Her salary has never been given to me except for shopping.

Give her the baby and the house. I just want to end this marriage as soon as possible. I know I can't hide such a big thing. I told my parents in my hometown that my mother was going crazy and kept calling me and my wife.

A friend advised me, and he said to me, "If you divorce, you will definitely regret it later. It is best to come from a family. The essence of marriage is mutual tolerance. Both sides are working hard in one place. If you don't understand this truth, you can't get along with anyone, and you may not find the ideal person after divorce. "

That's true, but I just want to say, don't persuade others to be good without their pain.

After we had the idea of divorce, I submitted my resignation report on June 30th. 165438+ I can leave my job tomorrow after making friends. I just feel so tired. I played with my daughter for a few days on New Year's Day, and then I went back to my hometown for a month before making my next plan.