Whether in ancient times or in modern times, people regard marriage as the most important event in life, so it must be held hastily or in accordance with local customs. Now I will tell you about the differences of wedding customs in Xiamen and the customs taboos that newcomers must know.

What's the difference between the wedding customs in Xiamen? 1. Zheng Na: It's called a gift, and it's usually more appropriate to give it one month to two weeks before marriage. Generally, the man's family will send gifts to the woman's family according to the prescribed conditions, and it is more appropriate to invite two to four female relatives (people who need all the blessings) and the matchmaker to go to the woman's family, and then bring gifts, cash gifts and a lot of gifts.

What's the difference between the wedding customs in Xiamen? 2. Qing dynasty: the man would ask the fortune teller to choose a good day and then find a good day to get married. The purpose of this is to make the marriage smooth and the two people harmonious.

What's the difference between the wedding customs in Xiamen? 3. Wedding Ceremony: This time is usually the climax of the whole wedding. On that day, the groom will invite the best man and several brothers to accompany him, and usually greet the bride with flowers after 12. We know that there are many customs in the woman's family, such as what to do when getting started. To put it simply, it is right to prepare more red envelopes this day. After these ceremonies, the bride is taken out by her sister or maid of honor and given to her father, who then gives it to the groom. This is what people call a formal couple meeting ceremony.

What's the difference between the wedding customs in Xiamen? 4. Make a bed: This is usually done on an auspicious day a few days before the wedding. This is prepared by my husband's family. First, a good-natured woman puts the new bed in an auspicious place that is conducive to trust, then spreads a bed of dragon and phoenix quilts and sprinkles: red mung beans, lotus seeds, red dates, longan, walnuts and other happy fruits. This ancient name is (pressing the bed), which means spreading the branches and leaves. Next is the most important ceremony before the wedding. The etiquette seems to be (going to the cabinet) and (going to the top). (Going to the pavilion) means that the bride-to-be stays in a corner of the house for a short time before getting married, usually in the boudoir or attic, accompanied by a group of sisters and close friends in the boudoir, so as to get rid of the usual living habits for the time being and prepare herself psychologically so as to adapt to the unfamiliar living environment of her husband's family in the future. The bride will not leave the attic until the wedding day, so it is commonly known as teenage marriage.

What's the difference between the wedding customs in Xiamen? 5. Worship heaven and earth: This custom is essential, and it will generally be presided over by many blessed people. Newcomers worship heaven and earth first, then their ancestors. Trust and bow down to parents with tea. Then, the bride has to prepare two gift letters, Wei Wangjin and a full house, and give them to her aunt after passing the door.

What's the difference between the wedding customs in Xiamen? 6. Make trouble in the bridal chamber: On the wedding night, the good friends and relatives of the bride and groom organized more than ten children to be grooms, and the bride "sent the children". But a pair of children must be lit in advance, and then they will happily enter the bridal chamber with the "children's plate", and the noisy room will end after the "four praises" and other procedures.

What's the difference between the wedding customs in Xiamen? 7. Zhaohuimen: Zhaohuimen means that on the third day after marriage, the bride is invited by the groom, the best man and the bridesmaid to have dinner with her parents and elders. At this time, we should prepare the burnt gifts and go back to her parents' house to worship her ancestors. Remember to take a crutch with a head and a tail from the new house to your mother's house. The purpose of this is to show the whole marriage process from beginning to end, so that almost the whole marriage process is completed.

Summary: The above is about the differences of wedding customs in Xiamen and the customs taboos that newlyweds must know. We know that there are some differences in customs in every place, but most of the processes are similar and the differences are different. I hope the above introduction will help you.