I want to tell you that I have been there before and feel the same way. However, I am ignorant, but I am actually playing dumb on purpose.
Now you must get to the point of the problem. The point is that you love her, she loves you, and you want to get married. The second thing is time, blessings from parents, relatives and friends, bit by bit ~
Your parents are also good people. I can see that my parents have put a lot of effort into my marriage. Even now, it is not easy to be a parent with children and help us with housework. Outsiders always say: Xiaoyan, such a good boy, is really lucky to be with his woman and has posted two senior nannies (referring to my parents), which makes me very sad.
You have to communicate with your wife again. It's not too late to leave the wedding. I hope she is a reasonable girl. I also trust your vision. Only the daughter can do the ideological work of mom and dad. She said that you don't pay attention to her because of a filial daughter. Only you who love her can untie this knot. If you compromise this time, I think you will get married in the future, and you will be very tired because of many broken things. Try to win her heart and tell her well. This is the crux of the problem. If you also broke the jar and broke the fall, blindly safeguarding parents' rights and interests, it would not become a dispute between the two families. Why show it to outsiders? Those of us who have stopped fighting have to watch the fun.
Dude, as a man, your role in marriage is very important. If you can treat your wife with care, patience and love, then your parents may enjoy the filial blessing of your daughter-in-law in the future. Come on! For example, you can give up this idea, or do it at 24 o'clock and get the license at any time. As long as you make your prospective wife happy, you can get it tomorrow.