1. Choosing a relative means that the man's parents find a girl for their son from relatives, friends, neighbors or other places. After the selection, they told their son through others and asked for his advice. A son can also find his own partner, but he must get the consent of his parents.
2. Marriage means that once a girl is selected, her parents come forward and ask two middle-aged men from relatives and friends to propose to her, and they can only get engaged with her parents' consent.
3. When the bride price is given, the man's mother will come to the woman's house accompanied by three or four women with the prepared bride price. The woman prepared the meal with great enthusiasm. When eating, take out all the gifts you bring and give them to the woman in person, and agree on the date of giving the big gift.
The clothes, food and other things sent by the big gift are much more than those sent for the first time. When giving a big gift, the number of people accompanying you and the number of people getting married are generally agreed by both parties. Accompanied by relatives, friends and neighbors, the man's parents went to the woman's house to formally meet their parents and main relatives. Guests who give big gifts should be warmly treated by the woman. After that, the two sides agreed on the wedding date and wedding matters.
The day before the wedding, the man should send the things needed for the wedding to the woman's home. On the same day, both the bride and groom set up seats in their respective homes to entertain guests. Now, the male guests are entertained first, and then the female guests are entertained. Men and women don't sit together. The female guests brought a celebration gift. Accompanied by their companions, the bride and groom gather in a room in the woman's yard to play and dance.