On my side, as long as the economic conditions are similar, they are all similar (there are about six pairs of actual examples): the woman takes the car, the man takes the house and household appliances, but the wedding is usually held at the man's house. If it is a different place, the woman's family should have a dowry ceremony. But this is also discussed by the two families. I just got married. My family paid all the expenses. The woman's family didn't pay, but didn't confiscate much money.