Of course, we will lose a lot of things by going our own way, and you may have to spend a lot of time and money. In the end, you may not succeed, and you may even be accused and laughed at by your relatives and friends.
But, young man, please remember that you should work hard at the age when you should. No matter what the future holds, there will be no regrets in your youth. Don't regret after your efforts.