1, the woman wants to invite the gift-giving guests to eat eggs (two shelled eggs for each person to cook sweet soup);

2. Gift money from men

The gift money-the woman wanted to return it-she took it all.

All gold wares-women accept others-women accept all.

Second, the woman prepares before marriage.

1, prepare men in the man's family (the groom's father, brother, grandfather and those who are close or live together (two towels each;

2. Prepare two towels and a pair of spring flowers for the women in the man's family (the groom's mother, sister, grandmother and those who are close or live together);

Note: The towel was sent to the man's house with the dowry before marriage.

3, a double happiness box, a red envelope pad in the corner of the box, with money inside;

4, flower handkerchiefs, rice towels should be embroidered with money, and several pairs of Hong Qianchun flowers should be prepared, with big sides and small sides, which are used when getting married;

5. Two pajamas, trousers and underwear in winter and summer, and pajamas should be embroidered with money.

6. A washbasin and a footbath, two combs, mirrors, tooth cups, toothbrushes, toothpaste, towels and foot towels (for the bride and groom).

Note: When buying a mirror, no one is allowed to take pictures. Wrap it in red paper and put it in a red suitcase (the bride will take a picture first when using it).

7. A urine bucket (usually replaced by a red plastic bucket) with four brown sugar pills, two pieces of charcoal wrapped in red paper and a bag of grain)

8. A pair of pillows, a blanket and a quilt.

9. A pair of sugar cans, a pair of tea trays and 4-8 sets of tea cups (with cover and chassis).

Note: There are red dates, peanuts, oranges, lotus seeds and sugar in the sugar jar.

10, sending big items to my daughter.

Third, when the bride gets married, her family should make preparations.

1. When the groom knocks on the door to marry the bride, the elder of the bride's family leaves, and peers or others open the door.

2. Invite the groom and the best man to eat eggs, drink tea, eat winter pink duck and give red envelopes to the bridesmaids and the best man.

Before going out, the bride and groom worship Buddha and ancestors.

The bridesmaid brought money to the man's house and said, "People die first." When the bride enters the room, sit firmly in the chair (never sit on the bed).

The bride should offer tea to the elders, brothers and sisters of the man.

Note: Make tea in a cup with a lid, add sugar water and two red dates and Longyan, and make tea in the order of generations, and insert spring flowers into the woman of the man's house.

Go back to your parents' house for four or three days, and your parents will prepare.

1, two sugarcane (red ribbon tied at the head and tail)

2. Four-color cakes each 12.

3, a rooster, a hen, chicken feet tied with red tape (eggs can also be used instead)

4, a plate of sweet rice cakes, cooked in brown sugar (a plate of worship Buddha, a plate of worship mother)