1. frank communication: express your thoughts and feelings honestly with your parents, let them know that you value this good friend and hope to attend her wedding in person. In this process, we should keep calm and rational, avoid too many disputes and try our best to learn.

2. Understand parents' concerns: Try to understand parents' concerns. They may be worried about your safety, traffic problems, expenses, etc. If possible, you can provide some solutions, such as asking your parents to send you to the wedding site, choosing a nearby wedding venue, and controlling the cost.

3. Emphasize the importance of relationship: Emphasize the deep friendship between you and this friend, and you hope to express your support and blessing to her by attending the wedding. It can be said: "I can go with my parents, which not only ensures my safety, but also gives them a chance to meet my friends."

4. Concession: If parents still disagree, consider making some concessions. For example, you can choose to attend only some ceremonies or celebrations afterwards, or you can choose to meet your friends alone at other times.

Remember, parents' opinions are important, but your feelings are also important. Try to keep an open mind and understand and respect each other's position.