First of all, I think we should not be too decisive. As for the dowry of bride price brother, if you really love your wife, you can choose not to take it to heart, but you have to consider your family, so you need to communicate with your wife. If your wife is tough and simple, doesn't she have a brother-in-law If you have anything to do after you get to your brother-in-law, you can help, but you don't have to pay. And your wife is married, that is, your family, you should pass on your ideas to her.