First of all, it usually takes a day to get married, but it is necessary to make preparations the day before the wedding, such as pulling a dowry to the man's house and preparing tables, chairs and benches. Family members themselves are too busy to come, and they are bound to come to a lot of help, so they must take good care of dinner at night.

The second question, no one has a reward, not too much. Average red envelope 100 yuan. How much is up to the man.

The third question, you said that there will be a wedding these days. The wedding is only one day, and relatives will go on the same day. Some distant relatives may not go, but the money will definitely come.

Wish you a happy wedding.