We have a local custom, that is, when talking about the object, the woman visits the man's house for the first time 1 time, which is called "going home". It means to see how the man's family is and whether he likes it or not.
For the woman 1 to be a guest at the man's house, the man's parents attached great importance to it and prepared good wine and dishes for warm hospitality. Of course, when you leave, it is also indispensable to send a gift. Generally, you will give the woman a red envelope of 1000 1 yuan, which is euphemistically called "one in a million".
You see, the man's family pays more attention to the woman! It is not easy to choose a good woman from 10000 people!
But even more ridiculous is that the meaning of one in a million is good. However, when I meet some women who are one in a million, I dislike the man's poor family, or even a bad life. One in a million is not to pick out the good, but to pick out the bad.
Of course, giving gifts is just a courtesy. If you have money, you can give more, if you don't have money, you can give less, and if you feel that the time is not ripe, you can not give it. So there are no restrictions on gifts, and there is no need to compare them. Finding someone from two of a kind is the most important thing.