She said that at that time, she had just graduated from college and couldn't find a job. She was far away. The living expenses given by her family have all been used up. Even when she only eats steamed bread and pickles every day, in order not to starve herself to death, she really went to the wedding scene of strangers.
According to her description, I summarized several points. First, you must be thick-skinned enough to enter the wedding scene as if nothing had happened, and then sit down to eat calmly; Second, you should have friends from the wedding company, so that every time there is a wedding, you can pretend to be a staff member, bring your internship certificate and walk into the wedding scene. After sending your blessing, the parents of this couple will also invite you to dinner very politely. At this time, you can sit down to eat very calmly. Third, if possible, it is best to have one or two companions, who can be more natural by boarding the boat and pretend to be friends of the bride or groom. Anyway, after going, the other party doesn't know themselves, which is more natural.
Well, to be honest, I don't agree with her method, but if it helps you, you can try.
At the wedding, I got married in Harbin, Hebei. At that time, my family didn't come, my husband's family moved from Shandong, and there were few relatives in Harbin. At that time, we had a thank-you banquet, like eight tables.
At the beginning of the thank-you, someone my husband and I didn't know came directly to the door of our room and asked us if it was the wedding of * * and * * (we also left Yi Labao at the door). At that time, my colleague who was in charge of writing my gift list said yes, and he entered the room and sat down without saying anything. Later, when we made a toast, I thought I didn't know him. My husband said he didn't know him either, so I went over and asked, Who is this? He said falteringly, I know your husband. I wanted my husband to check it out. Then I decided not to let him look into it. After all, this is a wedding thank you. It doesn't matter if there is one more person. In such a happy moment, it's not a bad thing to send a blessing by one more person.
Afterwards, my husband and I talked about this matter. My husband said that this person is too shameless and doesn't look like a person who can't afford to eat. I guess he just likes to take advantage of petty advantages, wife. If you had told me, I would have kicked him out.
If it weren't for the helplessness of life, I think most people are still proud and will definitely not attend the wedding of strangers. Then there are those who love to take advantage of small things, and those who rub the wedding banquet are really extreme.
If it were you, I wouldn't advise you to go. Of course, I won't go by myself at any time.