Any problem that can be solved with money is not a problem.
"No bride price", almost can't get married. Before marriage, when talking about the bride price with his fiancee, according to the custom of our hometown, the man should give the woman a bride price of 50 thousand to 80 thousand, depending on the man's family conditions, but it is best to be within this range. After our daughter received the bride price, her parents added another 20,000 to 30,000 yuan and brought it to our new home as a young couple to start funding. But when it comes to bride price, my fiancee is very resistant. She said a lot before telling me 10 thousand yuan. When I heard this number, I didn't want to get married for a moment, so we quarreled and went home separately.
Not only did he disrespect the custom of my family, but he also said, "I don't think you are such an apprentice woman." I have been in love for five years, but I haven't realized my character and personality, but because of a custom, I have forgotten all the daily beauty. But in the end, the fiancee communicated with her parents, and his parents agreed to pay the bride price, and our wedding was held as scheduled. After all, problems that can be solved with money are not problems. We don't have to have such colorful ceremonies in our family, but his attitude completely chilled me.
When you can bow your head and apologize, don't raise your head and carry it hard.
What should I do if I quarrel because of my marriage? Quarrel is a matter of course, but the key is whether anyone bows their heads and apologizes after the quarrel. I believe many people have heard that "lovers win quarrels but lose love", which is a matter of course. When we quarrel, we just fight for victory or defeat in our hearts, so we don't give in to each other, and the situation is getting more and more fierce. In the end, both sides lost, which caused many cracks in love out of thin air.
If there are no people who bow their heads and apologize, the cracks will get bigger and bigger and become an insurmountable gap. Even if two people finally make up, even if they think about it one day, they will always turn over old scores. This is the "sequela" of quarreling when getting married. So when you quarrel when you get married, you can bow your head and apologize, and don't raise your head and carry it hard. Soft-hearted obedience to lovers is not cowardice, but a manifestation of love. There are always quarrels before marriage. Is it necessary to get married? Three ways to solve the quarrel before marriage
There must be more love in your heart than complaining.
The teenage couple recovered: escaped again, we have lived for 20 years and will never be apart. The recent love between a 70-year-old couple has given us a lot of inspiration about love and marriage. 65438+1At the end of 0, 75-year-old Grandma Yuan and 79-year-old Grandpa Xie were diagnosed with pneumonia in Hunan and admitted to ICU. During the hospitalization, the two old people could not meet each other, so they could only encourage each other through video and asked the medical staff not to tell their illness. Recently, two old people have recovered one after another. They have been married for 50 years and broke up the longest. They want to hold each other for another 20 years and say they will never break up.
To be honest, every time I see young couples and couples sunbathing in a circle of friends, there is nothing in my heart. I always feel free to be alone. However, whenever I see such love and love on the verge of life and death, I am always filled with emotion. I envy this kind of love, which has a long history and supports each other.
So "we always argue about getting married. What should I do? " . Please think about it. Couples who have experienced disasters know the importance of love. Don't give yourself a chance to regret while we still have time. Those who love me should love boldly, those who can hug should hold hands, and cherish those who are good to themselves and those around them in life.
We have never experienced a disaster. Because we have never experienced separation, we should reflect on other people's experiences. Will separation make us happier or will love make us better? If the answer is love, why not stop arguing from now on, let your heart calm down, find the root of the problem and solve it together?
Quarrel will ruin love and make marriage disappear.
There are too many things to consider when two men and women with different personalities get married. For example, falling in love is different from getting married. Before getting married, we should consider the consumption concept and earning ability of both parties. Married. Do you want children? Who will take care of these children? You need to confirm your love before marriage, isn't that what you want? Everyone's living habits are different, so when doing something, is it necessary to know whether the other person has the same view as himself? Is it necessary to confirm whether the other person likes his friends equally before marriage? Before marriage, both parties need to consider the sexual life of two people. Do you have the same idea? Marriage is not about two people. Is it necessary to confirm whether parents don't interfere in two people's lives at this time?
It is necessary for us to think about these issues before marriage. Impulsive flash marriage will only make us collide. It is right to "be careful to sail for thousands of years" and think more about long-term issues. Although we love each other, only by solving the root cause of our quarrel can we get together more easily, get closer to each other and rely on each other more happily. I hope we love each other without quarrels and estrangements. As the years go on, we will love each other more and more, and become our first inspiring appearance.