The bride price must be given directly to her mother-in-law and father-in-law. When my brother-in-law married my sister in 2005, the bride price in our countryside was about1.5-20 thousand, and my parents asked for 8000. As a result, my brother-in-law and his father meant to decorate the house at home, and the money was tight, and the bride price was 6000. My parents agreed without saying anything. Because my brother-in-law is from other places, I didn't give the dowry when I got married, and my mother took out 3800 yuan from the bride price money and returned it to my brother-in-law. After marriage, my brother-in-law has been very kind to my sister. Therefore, it is most important to have enlightened parents.