Communication shows attitude. After some girls get married, her husband's family will let her stay at home and not let her go out to work. At this time, girls should make appropriate responses according to their actual situation. ..... Specifically, girls need to be clear about the reasons why their husbands don't let them go out to work, maintain independence, and communicate and coordinate with their husbands.

1, you must first find out the real reason why your husband-in-law won't let you go out to work.

There is a fundamental reason why the husband's family won't let themselves go out to work. Girls must find out the real purpose of their husband's family and use it as a basis for their own response. ..... For example, my husband's living conditions are good and he doesn't want his daughter-in-law to go out to work hard. I should be gratified by such a situation. When taking countermeasures, we should fully understand the care and love of the in-laws For other reasons, I have to respond accordingly.

2. You must ensure your independence in the family.

After marriage, although girls are married to their in-laws, they should remain independent ... If they don't go out to work and have no income, they may not be able to get a corresponding position in the family, which will have a negative impact on their lives. ..... So, no matter what the family situation is after marriage, girls should go out to work and have their own careers.

3. After making a choice, you should communicate and coordinate with your husband's family.

When a girl makes a final choice, she must communicate and coordinate with her husband's family. ..... Only by reaching an agreement with my husband's family can my choice be supported and I can do what I want. ..... Specifically, I can communicate with my husband first, get his support, and then win the support of my mother-in-law, so that I can go out to work as I wish.