But now, in front of young people are reality and life, bride price and house.

Facing the sky-high bride price, men and women have their own abacus, but in general, it is a kind of sadness for young people living in this era.

Because 480,000 bride price broke up, the woman knelt down and cried in the streets of Yibin City, Sichuan Province. A man and a woman met in the street. The woman knelt down and cried bitterly, pulling her former lover and crying about her eight years of youth, thinking that the man had cheated her eight years of feelings.

However, the man felt that he really couldn't get a bride price of 480,000 and had no choice but to break up.

The woman didn't ask the question of 480,000 bride price again, but kept asking the man why she wanted to live up to the feelings of these eight years.

So the question now is, do women care about the bride price of 40,000 to 80,000 or the feelings of eight years?

Is it that the man really can't come up with a bride price of 480,000 yuan, or does he think that after eight years together, the woman is not worth the bride price of 480,000 yuan at all?

So I said that the bride price is actually the first game between men and women before marriage.

The sky-high bride price, existence is reasonable, "existence is reasonable" is a motto of the famous philosopher Hegel.

On the surface, sky-high bride price is unreasonable, but now even in rural areas in remote areas, hundreds of thousands of bride price are acquiesced, and high bride price has almost become a routine.

Just as house prices are rising, many young people squeeze six wallets to buy a house, which is criticized by many people. This is an old-fashioned behavior.

But now, the word "NEET" has been gradually discarded from people's minds, replaced by anxiety about rising housing prices and life pressure.

Bride price is a custom in China since ancient times. From the feudal period, it was to buy out a woman's life. After a woman gets married, her labor value and reproductive value belong to her husband's family.

Now, with the continuous development and progress of the times, the bride price has gradually become the sincerity expressed by the man to the woman's family, and it is also a guarantee for the woman.

Different views of men and women on the bride price For the woman, the bride price shows that the man attaches importance to himself and also represents the sincerity of the man's family.

For the woman's parents, the bride price represents the economic strength of the man's family. Most reasonable women's families will consider the man's economic conditions, and then put forward the standard of bride price according to local customs and habits.

Moreover, on the basis of the bride price, a part of the dowry should be added for the woman to take to the young couple's newly formed family, which is for the sake of the young couple's future life.

But for the man's family, the bride price is like the woman deliberately selling her daughter, which is considered as the lion's mouth of the woman's family.

The married man's family has to prepare cars, houses and other things, as well as the wedding, which is already very expensive. Coupled with the high bride price, it will cause a huge burden to the man's family.

Therefore, on the issue of bride price, the man's family always hopes that the woman can appropriately lower the standard and play emotional cards. ?

Nobody is wrong. It can only be said that the woman wants a bride price for life and hopes that the man can give himself a sense of security and protection.

After all, the current marriage law is still unfriendly to the woman, not to mention the responsibility of having children, not being able to work, taking care of the family and doing housework after marriage.

Therefore, every time I see the sky-high bride price, the woman will say, if I spend more than 200 thousand to buy a nanny to give birth to my child and serve me for a lifetime, I will be happy.

The man is relatively rational in thinking, but he is used to playing emotional cards with the woman on the issue of bride price.

It is not easy to talk about a person's parents, and it is also difficult to earn money by yourself. In the man's view, the money is purely from the woman's parents, who deliberately beg for it from the man's family in order to ensure their old age.

Marriage and love can never be measured by bride price, because bride price separates many couples. On the surface, the sky-high bride price is a social problem, but in fact it represents the helplessness and resistance of young people to their present lives.

Nowadays, young people are under great pressure in life, easily hesitant in the face of feelings, and even more confused in the face of marriage. Nowadays, the society is full of all kinds of temptations. Even if they make a promise, it is difficult to be loyal to a person. Marriage is full of changes.

Therefore, the high bride price is actually equivalent to a guarantee of safety.

However, no matter marriage or love, it is never measured by bride price. From acquaintance and love to marriage, everything should be based on equality and love.

If it is true love, you should know how to think of each other.

It is not easy for the woman to understand the man's family, and the man understands the woman's concerns. The two of them discussed and controlled the bride price within a reasonable amount, which was in line with the traditional concept of marriage.