The source of baking ash
In the incense burner in the temple, more tin foil is burning. It will get bigger after a long time, and monks are afraid to pick it out and sell it. Later, people around the temple learned about it and came to steal tin from the stove to sell it. The same words "tin" and "daughter-in-law" are gradually extended to husbands and daughters.
There used to be a custom that the daughter-in-law would clean the dust under the stove to cut it. Cut the ash, bend down and kneel on the ground, and get your knees dirty. "Knee" is pronounced the same as "daughter-in-law", dirty knee, dirty daughter-in-law.
The terrible wedding custom of "picking up ashes"
MakeGray Yuanbei is a vulgar show at the wedding. It humiliates newcomers and does not conform to the core values of socialism. The father-in-law and daughter-in-law on the stage each wore a costume, all of which were red. My father-in-law is wearing the official uniform of the Tang Dynasty and a black official hat on his head, performing the word "grey".
This behavior is a feudal habit and a great disrespect for women. It is rare in developed big cities, often in low cultural level and some rural and underdeveloped areas.
What do you mean by picking up ashes?
Father-daughter affair Father-in-law and daughter-in-law adultery Qing Li Fu Yuan said that crawling with ash is a knee, a "knee" and a "daughter-in-law", so the code word of "picking up dirt" is generally made of tinplate paper. People go to temples to burn incense and worship Buddha. So this kind of ash is also called "stealing tin" = "stealing" is commonly known as this kind of ash. -Feng is 07555-79000