I think, when talking about boyfriends and marriage partners, it is important to see how your other half is, whether you can bear hardships and be diligent. Everything else is secondary. You said your boyfriend's mother was very kind to you. Where is good? Just because I bought a car and said it was for you to walk? Be realistic, which mother-in-law is bad for her daughter-in-law before marriage? Besides, your family's conditions are not bad. Now that you two are married, just say that you lost money in business and have no money to serve you wine. They have three suites, two private cars and a big truck. Aren't these money? To put it bluntly, I just want to dig your money. If your mother hadn't said that she would give you 60 thousand as the money for the closet, would she still say these words now? As for the wedding date, put it off. When relatives ask, they say there is nothing in the hotel, or there is a problem that day. Think for yourself. . . After all, your boyfriend's mother may have suffered a lot when she raised him alone, so she will care more or less about money.