In the early days, there was a story about a scholar whose family was poor and had no money to go to Beijing to catch the exam. One day, when he was chopping wood, he met a white ape and somehow saved it. Later, he was admitted to the exam and found a white lotus flower fairy as his wife. But after a long time, he changed his mind and felt that there were more white apes between him and his wife. He made an excuse to drive it away. However, the next day, he found that his wife was missing. He went looking for it like crazy, only to find that the white lotus and the white ape were far away on the floating lotus by the river, leaving only a skirt horn. The book said: "There are (apes) meeting thousands of miles away, but there are no (apes) meeting." The original story is quite touching. You can ask it in the story magazine.

I think your "fate" is like this "ape"