Parent-child wedding etiquette
Cancellation can't be cancelled, because it is a custom that will never change. But personally, there should be some policy restrictions on the amount of bride price money. Since it is a tradition, we can't cancel it. In fact, reducing the amount of bride price appropriately can alleviate some phenomena that high bride price hinders marriage happiness. I think some other netizens only mentioned the question of whether it should be or not, but ignored the real source of the bride price. In ancient times, the bride price was actually a gift from the man to the woman, no matter how expensive. Of course, the rich will give more, and those who have no money will naturally give less. Gradually evolved into today's engagement, how much money must be paid to get engaged. In fact, this is the distorted psychology of people's greed for money. Some people even gave this high bride price a good name, saying that it was a test of whether the man really loved the woman. In fact, they are all excuses. As the saying goes, courtesy is light and affection is heavy, but in the eyes of modern people, it has been changed directly. Affection can be eaten as a meal, can it be spent as money? For this phenomenon, I think that even if our country wants to cancel it, it can't be cancelled. However, I think the state should really control the amount of bride price. For example, looking at each other's financial situation does not mean that some people are willing to accept a high bride price for the girl they like, but in the end the money is borrowed or loaned. After marriage, isn't all the debts owed by this young couple? If I only answer this question, I personally think it should be cancelled. The bride price is an evolved custom, and the so-called bride price is just a kind of mind. How much you care depends on how much the man can bear! Instead of giving the bride price the title of custom, no matter whether the man can bear it or not, it is simply unscrupulous to charge exorbitant prices. There is another simple truth. If the man really likes the woman and the man is well-off, do you still need a bride price? You don't want others to give it to you! That's the real bride price. What you want is obviously the money to sell your daughter!